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so why do i feel so silly

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cuteboots · 11/04/2011 13:27

Ok here goes this is part 2 of a previous thread. I let the father of my little boy back into my life and it made me realise very quickly why he should remain an ex. Lack of respect and all that sort of stuff. We have now split up again and as he left my house he called me a joke because I have no desire to let him move in? This is the man that lives in a skanky bedsit and has nothing to offer me so why am I a joke when I work bloody hard to support his son..Why do I keep setting myself up for this and how can I grow a spine and tell this man to F* Off..I dont know whether to laugh or cry but how bloody dare he call me a joke!

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whitevanwoman · 11/04/2011 13:28

because you let him?

cuteboots · 11/04/2011 13:33

I agree Im far to nice but I tend to think that as hes the father of my child Ill give him another go and so the circle continues. Any advice on how I grow a spine?

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perfumedlife · 11/04/2011 13:37

What I don't understand is why you care that he called you a joke. Who cares what a loser thinks? He is the joke. Laugh at him.

The best revenge is living well.

TheVisitor · 11/04/2011 13:38

Your life would be far richer and happier without him. He may be the father of your child, but it doesn't mean you owe him a thing.

cuteboots · 11/04/2011 13:40

Perfumed life I agree and I will do my utmost to chuckle at the bedsit dwelling loser! Ive got what I wanted...

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cuteboots · 11/04/2011 13:48

the visitor I totally agree and when hes not around I am alot happier. It didnt work the first time and he doenst deserve such a gorgeous little boy anyway.

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