When does remembering wrongly turn into gaslighting?

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SO bloody confused. I have a good memory but lately i have apparently been wrong in my recollection.

Thanks tallwivglasses! I just wished I had shown the wisdom and strength when I should have done. Bit late now. Good people. I should have stood up for them.

I suppose we all can look back on life and think I ought to have done some things differently.

I'll try and remind myself of that

Ha, just been doing a bit of that on a different thread! Still hoping Paper might return...

Hope you're okay love x

I'm here.

Still debating with myself whether it was him recalling wrong or if it was me or if he was blatantly lying or my memory was fooked.

Hamster....I was on my way out and said "blah blah" put something down next to hamster cage, caught a whiff and said "blah blah and i must change the hamster" at least that was how i remembered it.

I have to be careful what i type online sorry.

No that's fine Paper.

I remember stuff through smells, textures, random stuff. Probably most people do, I just do it a lot because I'm forgetful.

If you've linked a thing that happened with something so specific (ie whiff of hamster cage) again I'd say trust your instincts.

Hmm, so why's this happening, I wonder?

Not a bloody clue. I am not sure it's malicious either.

Not a bloody clue. I am not sure it's malicious either.