Spicing things up?

[Ilovesqueezingspots]

Has anyone been to a lap dancing bar with their DH? If yes, did you enjoy it or was it a bad decision?

I would not go and i would not like my husband to go.

I would dress up and give husband a lap dance myself.

Or go to pole danceing or barrett (sp?) danceing lessons and pratice on my husband.

Why would your husband having a lap dance of another woman turn you on?

I've never been with a partner but I have been to a lap dancing bar and tbh they are about as erotic as watching dirty water swirl down the plughole!

Is your husband asking you to go? Have to say I don't think I would be thrilled if my BF was asking me to go to a strip bar with him. There are other ways to spice up a relationship that don't involve you watching some bored lady writhe in your husbands lap (whilst secretly hating his guts btw, I have 2 friends who are lapdancers and tell your husband they both DESPISE the men they dance for)

Nothing says "I love you" more than having a bored and exploited young woman writhe around pretending to have the hots for you both .
Eughh.
If either of you need that to spice things up you may as well call it a day now.

I guess you need to say what the problem is you're trying to fix. I have to say that I can't see any problem within a couple that would be improved by a trip to a lap-dancing bar. Is it OHs suggestion?