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What is it with married men!!!

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ginnyjeans · 03/04/2011 15:54

My decree absolute just came through the other day and a guy I went to school with found out and has seriously been putting the moves on me! Like I'm desperate because I'm now a divorcee. Does he think I'm an easy target? He is emailing and texting and he is married with 3 children! I said to him he needs to stop because for one I'm not interested in a relationship with a married man and what in hell does he think his wife would say if she knew he was doing this. Then last night, about 1 in the morning, he text me - again! I just haven't responded.

Last week went for drinks with the girls and this guy kept smiling over, looked quite cute - had his hand in his pocket. Apparently, when I went to the loo, out came the hand and lo and behold - wedding ring! I come back and hand goes into pocket again. Tut.

Just a rant!

Angry
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HerHissyness · 03/04/2011 17:00

My mum had this, her friends husbands, her boss, all of them came slinking out.

It is totally that they think you haven't had it for a while so are desperate. It's so sickening.

I have yet to encounter it yet, but tbh, won't tolerate it if I come across it. I'd be laughing in their faces tbh, a bloke in my life is the very last thing I want.

Fallingstars · 03/04/2011 18:55

This is pretty much what happened to a good friend of mine when she divorced her husband. She had men she wouldn't have looked at twice (and a lot of them married) sleazing all over her and it was driving her mad. Even worse than that she said was the friends trying to set her up with guys who again she wouldn't have looked at twice. Apparantly once you are over 38 any man will do as long as he has his own teeth!

Thank fully she eventually found a really nice guy and has been with him very happily for 8 months!

da55 · 03/04/2011 19:14

my ex recently found me on facebook and made friend request which i accepted.he is married with 3 kids and know am married although i havent told him am seperated frm my partner,he keeps sending me messages and asking when he can see me and all that.does he think am interested in him or i will leave my kids just to meet him(for what?)he is gettn on my nerves now and wants to block him.the check

Bishoplyn · 03/04/2011 21:53

Last time I was out in a bar with a friend I got chatted up by a married guy who had a 3 year old daughter. He got quite annoyed when I didn't want to dance, hold his hand etc.

I agree that is annoying and can be depressing. Where are all the good, single guys???

ginnyjeans · 03/04/2011 22:34

I am at a loss as to how to answer that one. Maybe we need to investigate and write a book on it! They have to be out there!!! :)

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BelleDameSansMerci · 03/04/2011 22:39

I get this all the time - always have done. Honestly, I know lots of men who would never, ever cheat on their wives but I know a lot more who would given even half a chance...

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