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hands up who had sex with their DPs on 1st/2nd date

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Anais53 · 20/03/2011 12:44

Just want a bit of reassurance really that sex from the get go isn't necessarily the kiss of death for a relationship.

Last night I had sex on the second date with a guy who seems absolutely lovely but I can't stop thinking that he'll just think I'm an easy lay and that'll be that. He has asked to see me again though :)

I'm no spring chick and should know better I suppose but it felt so right and this morning was lovely.

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Gay40 · 21/03/2011 18:50

I don't see the point of waiting. All it does is reinforce a damaging stereotype that women "allow men to have sex with them" rather than the fact that women enjoy sex, and that a man's job is to persuade her into the sack.
What a load of old shite.

Sorelip · 21/03/2011 19:06

I'd been at a new workplace for a week when there was a leaving do, which he invited me to. Went home with him that night. That was 1st May last year, we're now married.

mumof4sons · 21/03/2011 19:07

This is music to my ears. Have had 3 dates with a very nice man and oh so wanted to have sex with him. When we have our fourth date I am not going to run away. I really wanted to jump him when we parted Saturday night.

I separated from my H just over a year ago and haven't had sex in about 16 months, so really feeling the urge. My new man better watch out.

yama · 21/03/2011 19:09

No point in playing games. If you fancy each other, you fancy each other. Playing games might put the right man off.

So, yes - don't regret it.

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Anais53 · 21/03/2011 20:06

Oooh I'm excited for you mumof4, enjoy! Gay, I'm highly sexed and if I'm really attracted to a man I just don't have it in me to hold back. I've always been that way and I don't suppose I'll ever change now (I'm 53) :)

I suppose any man who's put off by that wouldn't like me anyway - too passionate, too spontaneous and far too feisty.

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Labradorlover · 21/03/2011 20:09

Date? Druken " bag off" first time I met him, after I'd puked on him. 16 years later still together Smile

AttillaTheMum · 21/03/2011 20:12

DH and I had sex one week after we met on our first date, We moved in together after four months and are now married with a DD and bump :)

saffy85 · 21/03/2011 21:44

Between 1st and 2nd dates- we had a booty call Grin. That was 6 years ago and I'm pregnant with our 2nd DC. Had our ups and downs but more in love than ever before.

carmenelectra · 21/03/2011 22:35

Wasn't even 1st date for me. It was the night I met him. VERY funny looking back. Don't regret or think about it much.

Been together 18 yrs and have 3DC's. Smile

BanalChelping · 21/03/2011 23:42

We were friends, then we slept together, I didn't really intend to take it any further - not the right time, slept together again (it was fun Grin), got into a sleeping together habit. That was 14 years, one wedding and two children ago.

PollyDecker · 21/03/2011 23:47

Shagged at a works do.

Shagged on our first date several (long, eagerly anticipated) weeks later.

Still together well over a decade, and a couple of DC, later Grin

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