Women On Top

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The long ans short of it is I was married but have separated from my husband and our sex life was non-existent. I now have a new boyfriend and am rediscovering the joys of sex but I am not very confident when in the woman on top position.

It is not a question of him wanting me to do something i'm not confident with, just that I am pretty inexperienced. So, ladies what do you actually do once you've climbed on board?

Mouseface, no worries :)

DD, W.

I was serious about the rug.

I am far too big to go on top.

At my size, it probably constitutes domestic abuse.

Rubbish Hecate, I'm not exactly slender myself, me on top is DH's favourite way of having me.
I haven't killed him yet .
Think of it as good excercise, like horse riding.

I didn't get the rug thing

I don't think anyone is too big for it, it is a confidence and experience thing I think (from someone who is neither confident or experienced, lol).

Donkey jokes very welcome but I can just about expose myself on top but there is no way I am sashaying about the bedroom with an equine tailed butt plug!

I was joking that me being on top would squash the poor guy flat.

I am not very funny.

I put the covers over me as well, so I'm not exposed to the outside world.

My new man prefers me on top. He commented this week that we actually fit together perfectly in this position. But he was entirely correct, we do! Agree with the horse riding comment - "walk" to start and work up to a canter! I've never needed to go to gallop stage, which is just as well with my middle aged hips.