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Original poster

this man is not agood prospect is he?

61 replies

thirdeye · 08/03/2011 11:10

been chatting to someone online.. and moved onto msn.

my man radar has been known to be out sometimes, so i thought id see what you all say.

Hes got two children aged 2 and 4. different mothers. he has one child alternate weekends.

He seems a bit obesesed with beautiful thin owomen and has made several derogatey comments about overweight women, or women who didnt try to be sexy, apparently his last girlfriend prefered leggings over stockings....
Hmm

then he keep going on about how excellent charlie sheen is,and how he would like his lifestyle, all booze and 'beautiful women'
when i pointed out the latest charlie sheen rant yeaterday he said, yes, but hes only saying it, not doing it. its the sort of thing i would say to an ex ( the bit about cutting her throat)
but becuase hes not doing it, its ok.

i shouldnt talk to him again should i

OP posts:
malinkey · 08/03/2011 11:11

No.

perfumedlife · 08/03/2011 11:13

Can't believe you typed that, and actually had to ask.

There are really lovely men out there, he isn't one of them.

potplant · 08/03/2011 11:13

Either he doesn't mean and saying it to try and impress you or he really does mean. Either way he's a tool.

greenzebra · 08/03/2011 11:14

I would if I was in your shoes, Ive done my fair share of web chat and sometimes you let them get away with stuff because its over the web. They can't see your facial reaction so they sometimes show you their true colours earlier.
He could be a nice guy but hes not doing a good job of showing you, sounds like hes showing off, or just plain stupid.
I'd end it.

BooBooGlass · 08/03/2011 11:14

Hell no. Block him and don't look back. What a knob

AMumInScotland · 08/03/2011 11:14

I don't think your radar is out - you can see quite clearly that he's an arse. You just need more confidence in your conclusion!

loopylou6 · 08/03/2011 11:15

Did you really have to ask? Hmm

Thingumy · 08/03/2011 11:16

It's a no brainer really isn't it?

He aspires to be a drug addict and shack up with hookers?

Hmm
ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 08/03/2011 11:18

He's a knob. A deluded, socially inept knob.

squeakytoy · 08/03/2011 11:19

Ask him if he likes Danny Dyer too... he sounds like the sort of prick that would.

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thirdeye · 08/03/2011 11:20

with charlie sheens ' beautiful women' who are prostitues.

yeah. i was more than a bit gobsmacked.

i then mentioned the domestic voilence he has been conviceted of, and he said he was just midly crazy..

and then the going on about ' beautiful women' and women dressing to distract men. and girlies not being able to do this and that.

knob isnt he.

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TheSecondComing · 08/03/2011 11:21

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ginnyjeans · 08/03/2011 11:21

Mmmm. I think your man radar definitely needs from fine tuning!! Are you sure he didn't ask you to send naked pictures of yourself either? Definitely - do not even entertain the thought of contacting him again. As has been expressed - we can all see he is a knob!

JessicaDrew · 08/03/2011 11:21

why do people have to ask others????
if you don't take there advise and it goes wrong you get the "I told you so"
and if you do take their advise and don't make your own mind up, you risk losing your perfect partner!!!
i say its best not to involve others and sort yourself out!

Thingumy · 08/03/2011 11:22

Uh huh.

Original poster
thirdeye · 08/03/2011 11:22

i think i said about charlie sheen saying he was going to cut his ex wifes head off and post it in a box to her parents.
and he laughed and said he might have said a similar thing to his ex.

thats not nice.

in fact, thats just plain wrong.

OP posts:
Ephiny · 08/03/2011 11:23

I have no idea who Charlie Sheen is, but he sounds vile and so does this man. I would not have any contact with him again.

Original poster
thirdeye · 08/03/2011 11:24

no. no naked pics.
i shall not ever send naked pics.

i am not a tramp.

i think hes a knob too. just, being new to all this, and last realtionship knocking confidence in my decisions, i just wanted to check what i was thinking was correct.

and it is.
:)

OP posts:
lilsmate · 08/03/2011 11:24

Dump the twat

Thingumy · 08/03/2011 11:24

He's not worth the headspace Op.

Move on.

squeakytoy · 08/03/2011 11:27

How did you actually come into contact with this wanker?

AyeRobot · 08/03/2011 11:41

I think you'll probably see him again. On Crimewatch.

RudeEnglishLady · 08/03/2011 11:43

Run away as fast as you can! Do not look back!

SpringchickenGoldBrass · 08/03/2011 11:43

BLoody hell, just block this arsewit. Your radar is clearly improving in that you thought 'hang on a minute' rather than 'Oooooo, he's such a thrilling politically incorrect Bad Boy'.
He's probably pig-ugly, as well; men who wave their willies like this online are usually odd-smelling, badly-dressed and live with their mothers - all this guff about being a 'bad boy' is down to their own feelings of inadequacy about never being able to get a date.

BelleBelicious · 08/03/2011 11:45

Shock He admires Charlie Sheen Shock

I hope everything's clearer now you've written it down; but you really must have lost confidence in your judgement. Sorry that you've got so insecure. Anway, if you're still in any doubt (which you're not, are you?) RUN!

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