things went too far with a work colleague and not sure how to act when we meet

[KidderminsterKate]

About 3 weeks ago a member of my team visited me at lunch time. I've been working at home since my DH left me (used to be office based) and we work in the same team. They were in the area near where I live doing a site visit so came round for lunch and to drop off some work stuff/ take some back to the office.

Anyhow - not sure how it happened but things got heated and I'm a bit embarrassed about it all and have sort of pretended it didn't happen. He texted me later that day but we've had not contact since..other than work related correspondence.

I suppose whats prompted me to post is that we have a team meeting on Mon and I'm not sure how to act, whether to say anything or not.....

Well I DID just drop some work notes....

You've told him there won't be a repeat performance so you now need to distance yourself and be totally professional. I think you shouldn't text him again. Perhaps send a more formal email to a work address if you are discussing work.

CW...did the earth move for you ?

Trembled, my dear, trembled.

Now where's my briefcase...?

all in a day's work..

So it seems...so it seems

So he arrived at a 'work' meeting in your home, armed with condoms, just in case you happened to sit on his

penis lap? Sounds like he might have known a shag was on the cards, to me!

The overnight situation sounds like a bad move - well, sleeping with him was a Bad Move of the highest order but the least you could do is distance yourself from this man if you don't intend on sitting on his penis lap again, surely?!

If he's an opportunist fannyrat (which is beginning to sound more than likely) he's probably always got condoms. Mind you, if he and his DP use condoms, he might always have one in his pocket.
Mind you, I have had 'blimey how did that start to happen?' sex before now and enjoyed it, so I'm not exactly shocked by that aspect.
But I do think there is a possibility of this trip away being a bit, er, problematic, KK.

I thought you were calling me a fannyrat for a moment, SCGB!

Whenever I've had 'blimey how did that start to happen' sex, I've nearly always had hairy legs and dreadful underwear on (oh and once a pair of pop socks, don't ask !

Which has meant I've never been able to enjoy it, for fear of being rumbled for my hideous under garments!