Anyone been in this boat- a relationship that's not over, but definitely not functioning either? Where the head says one thing but the heart says another and things just drag on with no decision being made? Can this go on indefinitely? How have people moved on, if they have been there? In my case I think my partner is depressed but won't seek help so don't want to leave if this is the reason. Also; love each other but incompatible in many ways. Been together 13 years. Thanks