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Achieved Orgasm through Penetration

37 replies

MabelStark · 11/02/2011 23:22

I did this!!
I am in my mid-thirties and this has never ever happened - never even been close...
I read all the threads that mention such things with AVID interest, and I have read before that once you know that it is possible that you can do it again - I hope so...
Know that I am over-sharing but do not have any RL friend that I discuss sex with (even though I am a big fan)
Key for me - if anyone is interested was, no alcohol, relaxed , big, long build up, kissing/non-sexual touching, orgasm through stimulation, DP laid totally flat me on top. Bingo, one very happy girl Wink

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nobiggy · 11/02/2011 23:24
KangarooCaught · 11/02/2011 23:25

careful or you'll give her another Grin

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MabelStark · 11/02/2011 23:27

Sooooo proud.... Have come a long way. Was so frightened of letting go and liking sex for so long, was a lights on bra on gal tummy sucked in don't look at me from that side eyes shut person for a long time. Amazing what a man that thinks you're the bee's knees can do!!

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MabelStark · 11/02/2011 23:28

Kangaroo - swear I can still feel it reverberating around there now!

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applechutney · 11/02/2011 23:58

Can I say that I think the key to this is your DP lying totally flat on top.

Have been with Dh for 14 years now, almost always orgasm through penetrative sex, and am convinced that it's the 'lying flat' bit that does the trick!

OhForBoonessSake · 11/02/2011 23:59

was your DP on top or you?

BitOfFun · 12/02/2011 00:01
BitOfFun · 12/02/2011 00:02

Sounds like you hit on the C.A.T.

applechutney · 12/02/2011 00:04

Oops, just realised it was probably you on top.
Never mind, I maintain my 'totally flat' is what works opinion.

Must be the friction involved...

AnyFucker · 12/02/2011 00:06

< applauds wildly >

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MabelStark · 12/02/2011 00:07

Me on top, and really keen, in my case. Really think that keeping the feeling going i.e leaping up there as soon as had come through other means was a winner, don't' pause for all the kissing/ cuddling nonsense - straight aboard.
Apple - now I know can be achieve would looove to have a variant! No stopping me now!

Was a couple of nights ago by the way, haven't clamoured off to post on MN.

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FoghornLeghorn · 12/02/2011 00:07

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MabelStark · 12/02/2011 00:09

Obviously had a few before posting this!! Apologies for sp's.

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Original poster
MabelStark · 12/02/2011 00:10

Severrrren - I assure you t'was a 9.

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MummieHunnie · 12/02/2011 00:28

I have a theory about this, I have had not had a lot of problems with achieving the O personally, as long as partner gives me a few minutes to get there Wink

I have 2 dd's and obviously from changing nappies, I have noted that they both are angled and placed differently, and I wonder if where you are angled/placed makes a difference.

Personally, I know that I have physio advised me and extreme exageration of my lower spine, so I would imagine that it affects where I am placed during intercourse and affects stimulation.

QueenStromba · 12/02/2011 13:40

I found that once it happened the first time it kept happening after that. I find that different positions are the best with different men. 30 seconds of doggy with my DP is enough for me now :)

amothersplaceisinthewrong · 12/02/2011 13:41

Why do you feel the need to share this with amyone?????

winnybella · 12/02/2011 13:45

And why not, amother? Hmm

Congratulations, Mabel Smile

SardineQueen · 12/02/2011 13:50

Nice work mabel Grin

And ROFFLING @ visual image of being "placed" during sex - DH would put his back out is he had to keep placing me I think Grin

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MabelStark · 12/02/2011 14:41

Same reason that you felt the urge to open the thread AMOTHER...Smile

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textualhealing · 12/02/2011 15:51

"Why do you feel the need to share this with amyone?????" AMOTERSPLACEISINTHEWRONG

Because it's something really rather special. And to make us jealous - I'm jealous!

I have only ever been able to achieve this three times. It was at the start of a relationship and more years ago than I care to remember. Live in constant hope it will happen again as it was the best!

fridascruffs · 12/02/2011 17:23

I can get there when on top no problem, but have only once ever got there while on my back. He was an exceptionally talented man however! [shouldhavemarriedhimemoticon]

piratecat · 12/02/2011 19:34

have got there before with the CAT as linked by BOF, but have also got there from superb angling technique. with no clitoral stimulation at all. the man i was with was just bloody good at something, and the orgasm originated from inside.
i wish i knew how i did it. but i was feeling very fancied and he was a good mover!!

HeroShrew · 12/02/2011 19:37

I got stuck at your "lights on bra" and was imagining that flashing lingerie was the key to sexual nirvana for a moment..

dementedma · 12/02/2011 20:09

got a belter once, while standing up. First time with penetratiwhile standing up.
Did end up pulling a muscle in calf as he was a lot taller than me so had to go on tiptoe Grin