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sensitive gag reflex??

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Butternutsquash22 · 31/01/2011 19:16

not sure if this is the right place to post, but here goes....

I have a very sensitive gag reflex. without going into too much detail, this disappoints H2B. I do however want to make more of an effort. do you think trying flavoured lubricant would help? I would just try it, but it is quite expensive, so dont want to buy it if its not going to have any effect.

has anyone had any similar experiences and if so, how did you get round the issue??

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Thingumy · 31/01/2011 19:23

I have puked on numerous occasions partially down to a sensitive gag reflex and a overtly sensitive stomach-couple those together and I have had to run off to the toilet and hurl.

Just go steady,don't push yourself into 'swallowing' more.You know your own limits so to speak.Think the key is to relax and do what makes you feel comfortable.

I'm not sure if the fruity lube would make much difference.I do find a few glasses of wine relaxes my gag reflex though.

OpenAmyrillis · 31/01/2011 19:28

use that vicks throat numbing spray? Long shot?

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Butternutsquash22 · 31/01/2011 19:28

I will try the wine, maybe get a bottle tonight to try!

H2b is very accepting about the lack of it, but I know that he would prefer if I could, so want to try harder, but obv will not go past what im not comfortable with.

Thank you!

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yogididabooboo · 31/01/2011 19:30

You don't need to deep throat to give a good blow job.

I have also heard Blush that those anti travel sickness bracelets/pressure on your wrist somehow eases yoru gag reflex.

but being sweet and innocent i wouldn't know that it does work pretty well

QueenStromba · 31/01/2011 23:17

Just use a hand as well as your mouth so that his cock isn't too far into your mouth. In my experience it works much better anyway - deep throating is just one of those things that they do in porn films which isn't actually that great in real life.

KikiJane · 31/01/2011 23:55

Yep, I was going to say the hand thing too. Take it slowly -- don't just try and cram it all in! But tbh, apparently the top 1/3 is the most sensitive anyway, so deepthroating is just showing off Wink

Also, flavoured lube is gross and unlikely to help at all.

TimeForACHEEKYWineOrTheBottle · 01/02/2011 00:05

I have sensitive gag reflex my dentist HATES me for it - eurgh!!

I do the normal blow job but not right in and use hand to wank - if you like - to help stimulate - no complaints yet!

AnyFucker · 01/02/2011 00:12

I gag when I brush my teeth, so I am no help to you Grin

I second the advice to hold with your hand at the bottom, and pay attention to the top half Wink

CockularDepravity · 01/02/2011 00:29

Hand on the base of the shaft, other hand on his balls or up his back passage, pay attention to the tip of the cock. Success.

oldme · 01/02/2011 01:05

agree wiv all the above. use the hand aswell as the mouth- pay attention to the tip work it well with the tongue, i usually deep throat at the v end, when he was super sensitive- it's my Crescendo! lube never helped me
Have fun!

KikiJane · 01/02/2011 09:27

Also, get your tongue pierced Wink

That would be my bf's advice, were he to give it!

AnyFucker · 01/02/2011 09:36

pmsl @ CockularDepravity

a hand up his jacksy ?

that is hardcore Grin

< eyes water >

KikiJane · 01/02/2011 09:53

I snorted. I'm at work.

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