my ex would be my DH.
not DS' father btw!
but my ex from a couple of years ago.
he came over last night, and it was fantastic. we are the best of friends, i fancy the pants off him. it could be so so great.
but he has issues, he's hurt me so much in the past, and i'm not prepared to take the considerable risk of being hurt so badly again. how shit!
what would your magic wand change?