Is he cheating?

[whatthehelldoido]

Been with DH for 6 years and we have a 4 year old DS and a 3 month old DD.
tbh I have found it a bit of a struggle since having our DD and he has not been getting a lot of action as I have been so tired all the time.
Today I went on the laptop to email some pics of DD to my mother who lives in Belgium.
Anyway I opened the photo file and in it found several pictures of a woman wearing very little but her underwear
My heart nearly stopped when I saw
What do you think the chances are of there being an innocent explanation?
Other than the lack of bedroom activity I thought we had been getting on ok

Are the pics professional?, do you think he might have been downloading them from somewhere?

Can you get into his email? say yours is not working, down for maintenance etc and you need to use his?

Failing that, take the laptop to him and sit down and ASK him who she is.

By the way I don't have a problem with him looking at porn but these do not look like they are from a porn website

Just show him him the photos and ask who she is

If they were somewhere you could easily see them, then he clearly feels he's nothing much to hide.

I back the 'talk to him' - maybe he is hoping to start a conversation about his needs and thought this might be a way to get your attention?

looks like im going to have to be brave and ask him. wish me luck

Good luck... Hope it's as innocent (relatively) as poss!

Could somebody else have used his laptop maybe?Thats the best possible outcome I can think of.

If she looks really, really hot it's probably a random woman off a website.

any luck?