Hi there,
I'm a relative newbie and mostly lurk, and am in therapy at the moment for reasons partly linked to my childhood, and partly due to Traumatic Stress caused in adulthood.
I found this link, which you may think more suitable for the education board, but because it talks about self-esteem and narcissism which crop up here quite often in the context of relationships, I thought it might interest some others.
ceep.crc.illinois.edu/eecearchive/books/selfe.html
As I am in TA therapy, and learning to manage my inner child while fighting off my critical parent and looking for my adult without feeling as though this work is a symptom of narcissism
(my therapist says it's not but of course I have to have tiny doubts cos that's my script....)it interested me to read so much about how children develop in these contexts.
Hope it is interesting to others too :)