I want to be an ethical slut

[Anais53]

After a lifetime of serial monogamy and long-term relationships that proved unsatisfying, I have achieved an understanding and acceptance of myself.

I've always loved sex but never found a way to express my sexuality or to find it consistently worthwhile. Now, in my early 50s, I'm able to embrace the knowledge that I don't need a partner or even want one. But I do absolutely need sex with a nice man/men.

I know SolidGoldBrass has most interesting views on the subject of casual sex and I'd love to know what you think. Would also like to read the Ethical Slut, is anyone familiar with it?

No need to bother reading a book about it, just get on and do what feels right. Don't forget about protection though just cos you can't get pregnant anymore and go for regular STD testing.

thanks sgb