Ideas to spice up love life

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Have been with hubby 25 years and are looking for ideas to spice up our love life.We have been trying new things recently such as dvds,dressing up,light bondage but are looking for ways to develop this.We wouldn t want to involve anyone else physically but we do fantasise about other people we know and will both point out people we find attractive.What else can we do to make things more interesting?

Sounds like you are doing all the right things. The internet is a great tool for such stuff, so google away!

Roleplay.

Each write a scenario and have fun acting them out.
Medical roleplay along with a bit of bondage looks quite fun, but be aware that some of the props can be a bit ermm, scary or downright hilarious - glow in the dark speculum anyone?

You could have a look on fetlife to see if any particular fetishes appeal, I didn't realise there were so many!

Well you all know my views on caning. Utterly fantastic after some practice.

One of the positions they suggest for ladies "heavy with child" is also certainly worth a go!

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