hi all i'm sorry but i have to say something i promised i wouldnt say anything just yet to my mum friends in real life until we had both told both sets of family and really close friends but if i dont say something soon i really will burst and i figured on here isnt real life so here goes i asked my dp to marry me and he said yes so we are getting married not set a date yet but we've decided to enjoy this 1st before all the stress of organising starts [grin] there feel much better now [grin][grin]