Feel So Fucked need to rant

[coolcat10]

So I have got the most nastiest flu right now and all night I have been sneezing and coughing away. My stupid husband even though being fully aware of this decided to throw a bitch fit before leaving for work! The usual words Im to blame for all the wring in our lives blah blah blah. Usually i would just ignore it until he calmed down but seriously i had no energy for this today so i screamed back. I know stupid of me I should have just saved my energy but honestly in between sneezing and coughing my guts up the last thing i wanted was to hear his nasty words.

He does always remind me that wen he is in that mode I should just ignore like a person would a "barking dog" his words not mine and yet today i did not use that advise. Of course he has left for work in a huff and puff so I cannot wait for the continuation round later..................

Someone kill me now :(

Sorry you feel so poorly.

You seem to be saying that your husband routinely hurls abuse at you, believes you should just shut up and take it, and that you agree with him. You shouted back because you were already feeling down, otherwise you'd have sucked it up?

Why, exactly?

my ex H wa always a pig to me if i was ever ill as it meant his routine may of been disturbed i.e, he may of had to sort out kids/evening meal, he was the same throughout the 17 marriage, never supporting me if i was ever ill, but always lapped up the caring, nurturing, he got if he was ill, it was that total lack of care and consideration that was one of (but not the main)the reasons i fell out of love with him in the end, i had the flu bug 3 weeks ago it horrible but it will pass, take care

Don't put up with the next round.
phone him text him email him that there will be no second round you are ill and need his support, not abuse.

Tell him if you were lucky enough to have him as a barking dog, that you'd be shipping him off to Battersea first chance you get.