embarrassed - urine or ejaculate

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This is such an embarrassing thing to be asking but no idea where you can ask this question

So, new relationship - intense orgasm through penetration on top - and I either pissed myself or ejaculated????

Back story, when I first discovered masturbation, I would pee/ejaculate every time. I learnt not too, as I thought it was very wrong. Haven't done it for years. I do have some stress incontinence now - severe coughing, sneezing and on the very rare occasion when I vomit

So... during a very intense orgasm with new partner, I peed/ejaculated - how do I tell which one???

Not embarrassed by ejaculating, very embarrassed if it's wee!

The bed will smell of piss.

female ejaculation is far more common that people realise.

if it was urine you would be able to smell it.

Your question has been the subject of many scientific papers! You can gGoogle your thread title to see them. Summary: Some women do 'ejaculate' - this has been known since the Kinseys' studies in the early '70s - and the fluid does contain some urine.

It's a compliment to the sex you had :)

The problem is, I was on top so nothing got to sheets - all on him

I did smell sheets once he left but there was no trace

Must be ejaculate then! Congrats!

Piss smells of piss, so you'd know. He should be flattered, and you should look forward to more of the same.

ohdearyme piss is such a vulgar word, urine would be more appropriate, no?

A old friend of mine did this too and it would seem it is ejaculation. Enjoy!

Touche ha ha

Tho we both know not in the same way as the f word. I doubt it has hurt op's feelings my dear.

I thought the jury was still out on female ejac?

Urine will only smell some time later- not straight away- sorry but I'd be 90% sure it was urine, as a lot of scientists say women do not ejac- what is it and where does it come from if it is?

The jury can be out as long as it likes but some women do ejaculate. It's not ejaculation like men do , it's more like the build up of fluid releases with muscular pressure.
Definitely not urine. Trust me.

Some women do, some don't - it's not a measure of enjoyment or strength of orgasm, or any of this "my last gf could do it" etc. Simply, some women do and some don't.

So no way of knowing as it all ended up on him lol

Will have to wait til next time and see what happens then

Its also known as 'squirting' or 'gushing'. Some people believe its urine and some people believe its not.

I have my opinion and its no one elses so im keeping it to myself

Enjoy while it happens if you enjoyed it. It happened to me and I didnt like it so I dont let it happen. For me too i wouldnt like it to happen and cover my bedding.

SoF -how much 'fluid' are we talking about exactly? A dribble on him? Or a puddle?

If there wasn't too much (i.e it didn't run off him when he stood up!) it sounds like ejaulation.

What did he say/think after? He's prob got an ego the size of the Isle of Man by now if he thinks it was female ejacualtion!

I think you would be able to tell the difference. But there is definitely lots that can be done if it is urinary incontinence, and it's worth a trip to the GP.

If it was urine then it would be extremely apparent on the sheets the next morning, even if only a tiny bit leaked.

Sounds like ejaculate, congrats

I love it when it happens to me or my partner (past and current). I don't give a toss about the sheets lol

Probably ejaculate. Google videos of Cytherea.
(Extremely NSFW)
Some women do, lots.

Big feature on wiki if you want to read- most medics and studies say no- it's urine.

i thin its ejaculation. urine feels differnt and comes from a different place and you wouldnt be concentrating on that place

This happened to me once - the bed was flooded. My partner at the time and I were intrigued and spent ages sniffing, wringing out the sheet etc. to try to work out what it was (sad I know). We concluded that it must be ejaculate (not sure if his or mine but prob mine) as it wasn't yellow and definitely did not smell of wee.

It wasn't a gush but more than a trickle - enough for us both to notice though and there was no evidence left on the bed, so didn't run off him (sorry for way tmi)

He left with a face like this lol

So I'm still none the wiser

I'm not saying it couldn't be urine (possibly some women do wet themselves when they orgasm but I've never met one) but the smell, look and consistency is so obviously NOT urine.
It's a build up of natural fluids - lubrication/excitement.

I have this occasionally, its deffo not wee

Some women do, sometimes occasionally, sometimes every time and in varying quantities.

Apparently, about 90% of women can but won't due to social suppression.

It's been proven that dye in urine was not found in female ejaculate from the same woman.

Interestingly, it is thought that if a man ejaculates over 2.6tsp of fluid, the excess is urine!

Both male and female ejaculate can contain urine. Both women and men can ejaculate secretions devoid of urine.

Female ejaculate can smell and taste almost benign through to quite metallic, with a range of tastes and odours in between - varying just like male ejaculate can.

I think it's about time it had it's very own name

Congratulations.....You're a squirter!