How to make love to a man

[Toomanyquestions]

Friday night is the night for those questions isn't it ? I am wandering whether you had any suggestions as to how we (women) can make love to our man. I do the usual "sitting on top of" but really that's it, I am not even sure I do it well... and I don't know what else to do. Would you have any suggestions ?
I just can't help thinking men do a lot of the work, I would also like to take the lead at times but don't really know how and Internet has not been very helpful.

I would say just try to enjoy yourself. Your partner will appreciate seeing you having a good time :)

Sit on top, but turn around and face his feet.

YY colditz.

Also with them sat upright on the edge of the bed or bath, say, and sitting on their lap.

Also squatting above him.

I doubt that somebody who "makes love" does squatting, Queefer

Isn't it more a matter of making him feel irresistably sexy and desirable? If you do that then any position is just a technical detail.

A slow build up of innuendo and promise then a full frontal assault ought to work! All men like to feel wanted!

OP, do you want a full on, blow-by-blow description? Full on details, diagrams perhaps?

You need to put out a call for Expat and her blow by blow blow job thing

It's the stuff of legend.

Get a book, loads of ideas. Try a big bookshop so there is choice (and anonymity)

If you've got a Kindle, or kindle app, you can download samples of books for free. Go to something like 365 positions or whatever, download the free sample and you get at least 30 or so- enough to keep you going anyway!

(and agree with colditz, DH like that.)

Thanks, I loooked into the 365 positions, need to buy the book Will try the bed-side option. I guess I was more looking for your own experiences, what actually worked for you. I have seen many positions in books, not many that I can get to work physically. I am quite sporty but somehow it is not necessarily easy.

talk dirty

Ew. "Squatting"..just doesn't sound good in relation to sex does it?

Reminds me of giving birth or pooing.

How about crouching instead.

"She crouched sexily above him...lust in her eyes and..." nah...doesn't work either!

maybe start by slipping into the shower with him, a full on wash can lead to lots of fun!

teabagging

works every time

Can i ask how old are you Toomany?

now that it's been brought up, what's folks favourite position - just curious? My least fav is the missionary - it's always the one that's seemed to be expected though and shown most on telly/films.

LOL @ teabagging.

Doggy style. Good for him, good for her.

Enthusiasm does wonders. Even fake enthusiasm

Talk dirty to him OP. I've never met a man who didn't like it.

Dare Iask what teabagging is?

I would love to link you to Urban Dictionary, mumblechum - but it's blocked at work. Selfish. Please google