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do people have a right to fantasy?

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woodenpeg · 30/11/2010 11:02

How ever it may make the other party feel?

Whether that be a fantasy of chatting to sluts who whore themselves out on the internet or dressing up or whatever. Is it a persons right to be able to live it out??

I'm trying to rationalise something that happened over the weekend, I guess I'm looking for some MN feedback to help me. I am a namechanger; I'm embarrased to admit.

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woodenpeg · 01/12/2010 12:33

Thank you for asking AF; I am okay today... I feel almost relieved. I pity him at the moment. I'm not angry either - is that weird? I guess it was the straw that broke the camels back.

SGB - it is the drugs, but the drink always leads down the drugs road. He has, according to him (and his brother), been to the doctors to get help. It's never got this far and I am hopeful to be honest.

We shall see. But from a distance; me and the kids will be at my parents.

Thank you all very much for your input, helping me stay focused; mn is quite something.

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 01/12/2010 13:21

keep posting, wp, no matter what happens x

StuffingGoldBrass · 01/12/2010 15:56

Good luck WP. WHat he does with his willy is a lot less important than his drink/drug use, so getting him to pack that in has to be your priority.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 01/12/2010 16:21

I don't agree with sgb here

I would get rid of the fucker for what he did with his willy and let him booze and drug himself to fucking death

Stupid twat Xmas Angry

StuffingGoldBrass · 01/12/2010 18:06

Hmm AF: A cokehead with an alcohol problem is far more likely to a) spend money the family can't afford and b) get abusive than a bloke who has a wank or two. Living with an active addict is unbearable, differing views on monogamy can be discussed.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 01/12/2010 18:24

sgb...different view, same outcome though

get rid of the cokehead, who cares what he does with his dick because he ain't putting it anywhere near me

btw, get thee to "chat" Xmas Grin

StuffingGoldBrass · 01/12/2010 23:52

AF: What?? Why?? (squeaky needy overexcited emoticon)

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 02/12/2010 07:09

there is a thread with your name on it !!

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