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"Seeing each other" ?!?

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luceeloo · 29/11/2010 14:02

Would someone mind clearing up what the above actually means please! I've been on 4 dates with a guy from POF and things are going really well - text/talk everyday, live 5mins away from each other, had lots of deep and meaningful chats but not DTD. How long do you "see someone"/"date" before there's any exclusivity? Forgive my ignorance on the rules for these things, the last time I went through all this was 3.5years ago when I met my ex!

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HecateQueenOfWitches · 29/11/2010 14:04

I think that it's not exclusive until you have discussed it and agreed that it is. I think you should not make any assumptions. Oh X number of dates, we're not seeing anyone else now...

No, I think exclusivity is not determined by number of times you have been out, but by agreement.

BooBooGlass · 29/11/2010 14:08

You shouldn't assume anything. I met my dp on POF, and after about a month we both agreed to remove our profiles and be exclusive. You need to talk specifically about this, as 'dating' means different things to different people ime, and he may think it's ok to still be seeing other women

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