I think DH is a sexoholic.

[AllShaggedOut]

Honestly...what actually makes a man "unatural" in his need for sex? We're both in our mid-thirties with 2 dc...I DO enjoy sex...it's great but not as often as he wants it.

It causes rows...he ould do it three times a day if he could...he has never showed signs of being unfaithful...but I can't shag that often!

I work from home and so does he at times...if DC are not there then he comes after me all the bloody time...I have name changed for this btw as FAR too embarrased to talk about this otherwise.

We had a row today because I said that if I dont want it I dont want it and nagging or sulking is pointless...he thiinks I should "try" more as it really affects him if he can't do it often.

It DOES seem to affect him...he gets tense and grumpy...and sorting it out himself iyswim doesn't "work" apparently.

I would be happy to do it about twice a week...my younest is only 2 and I get knackered! I dont always feel sexy due to looking like I have been dragged backwards though a bush!

What to do? Feel like it will never work...

I enjoy a laugh along with the next person when theads get like this, life is too short, hope the RRRRRRrabbit gets you out soon!

Are you the spelling police Mrmeaner ? You just carry on being "in awe " of this man who pesters his wife for sex.

Apologies, just didn't want the 'fridgets' getting frozen...
The book quote was still rubbish though..

Dignified - apologies again if misunderstood - was a lighthearted tongue in cheek comment at the fact that anyone could even contemplate 3 times day... Was not meant to condone in any way.

Will step away...

Im willing to laugh at my own crap spelling ,it is awful , and i know it is , but its not so much fun when others do it. It can be quite hurtfull actually.

Rabbits?

down the hole in the parallel universe that Hullygully has fallen down referring to Alice and the Rabbit ( I hope there are no errors there Mr Meaner and that my compliance to your views and rules does not cause you offence as of course for me to cause offence with my dyslexic spelling is so offencive to you, far more important than it is to you to offend poor little old me... I is humble I is....)

Point taken Dignified and lesson learned - sorry again - although I hadn't noticed anything amiss in your posts...

MH - The book quote was rubbish and inappropriate... (and I'm not talking Lewis Carrol)

Mr Mearner, you have said that you think the book and the theory behind it is rubbish three times now... Is this to make up for the fact that you find having sex three times a day difficult so you repeat yourself three times a day verbally to compensate and put others down to make up for your feelings of inefficency! you said you were going to withdraw earlier...

Shit man, that's a bit much!

I don't think this kind of pestering for sex in a grown man is normal, tbh. I think it shows deep, deep feelings of insecurity and a need for constant reassurance. It's not really about sex - it's about him needing to be shown that he is valuable, desirable, etc. Does he need reassurance about other things too? Does he act overly confident to cover up his lack of confidence?

He might need some sort of counselling to get to the root of the problem. How is his relationship with his parents?

Do you mean does he want to incessantly shag his parents too?

Is there a funnier person on Mumsnet than Hully ? I think not.

Is there a madder person than MummieHunnie on MN ? I think not.

I didn't take offence at MrMeaner's comments though, even tough I can be a right huffy, fridged (and refridged) old bitch when I want to be. To be fair, some parts of this thread have been relatively lighthearted, without of course, straying off the point that this OP's bloke is a bit of a fucking saddo.

AF, true to your form as usual, I am sure that made you feel so much better about yourself!

I think Mummiehummie is fab.

I didn't think that MrMeaner said anything really bad...

Certainly nothing that warranted such spite - I mean, if someone said something like that to a woman on here (y'know, like, "oh stop repeating yourself, are you doing that because you can't perform in the bedroom?") there would be fucking uproar.

Shirley, you have come out from your hiding place now I see!

Peekaboo, Shirls!

Who IS MrMeaner? I shall have to look upthread.

Why am I still here? There is something irresistible about it.

BOOOOOO!

Whatchoo talkin' bout mummiehunnie?

I think your DH is a selfish twat.

HTH

my form MH ?

I think you need to take a closer look at your form

I am going to look at everyone's form so you'd better all scrub up and put on your dancing shoes.