or at leat fresh eyes on my issues!! I have fallen in love with my partner over the past few months and in many ways its exciting, exhilirationg and fun but... i have jealousy issues that i have not felt for over ten years and they're driving me mad. DP was a player/rogue in his twenties 
, when single but spent all his 30's in a faithful relationship (12 years she then had affair) since we spoke of our love and commitment to make it long term we talked at length of fidelity etc, he really wants it and believes in it and has been hurt in the past so I agreed we'd go for it. He says he got it all out of his system in his younger days and he's now early 40's!!
Anyway in his local pub at the weekend both quite hammered and he says a few comments that wound me up; 'she's attractive' about a bloke he knows partner, 'Thats the kind of girl I used to go for, she's not bad' about another girl and when advising his mate on going for a girl who fancies him- 'If I was you with a 20 year old after me i'd go for it'! It was all abit laddish and 'wahey!!'
The whole time I was there he was attentitive and kissing me and introducing me, I know he loves me so why the hell am i letting a jealous rage burn up within me??? Am i insecure/bunny bolier? I'm hiding it from him because we've talked at length about what we want and what we belive in and he is adamant he will be faithful and although he looks he will never touch and a bit of harmless flirting is fine on both accounts- any tips/practical advise/virtual slaps most welcome