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BookcaseFullofBooks · 13/11/2010 11:34

For many of us who have suffered dysfunctional and abusive childhoods, the children we were have been subjugated. Whether made to perform, grow up too quickly or keep a low profile, their needs have been shut away.
So, as an extension of the SH thread, I thought people might benefit from a space which welcomes our inner children.

Make this space whatever you want it to be. Let your imagination run free. If your inner child needs to express feelings that's okay too.

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Alaya · 16/11/2010 01:07

If you want a hug or to borrow Rufus again, let me know :)

BookcaseFullofBooks · 16/11/2010 08:42

That woul be nice, thank you Alaya.
I want to stop feeling so frightened all the time but I don't know how :(

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Alaya · 16/11/2010 09:21

You know what I do when I get scared? I imagine that if it's a person that scares me, that they are sat on the toilet with their trousers round their ankles while wearing a big 'ole clowns nose....they look so funny in my head when I do that and then I don't get scared any more.

If it's something else that scares me, I try to do that Harry Potter spell, Rikiulus and turn it into the funniest thing I can think of and then that doesn't scare me any more either. Maybe that would work for you too?

:)

Alaya · 16/11/2010 09:22

I meant Ridikulus heh, I think my spelling head fell off today Grin

Briar · 16/11/2010 09:26

Ooo.... Look everyone the witch is melting...just like in the Wizard of Oz!!!! Shock

Pretends not to notice huge pile of Nemos stuff...as can hardly contain the desire to poke the pile...just coz she can. Blush

... for being so kind to Bookcase...admires Rufus...he looks so squidgable!

Quietly tiptoes over up and puts Tigers Eye protection bracelet on Bookcases wrist...

droves · 16/11/2010 16:54

ooh look ! i made freindship bracelets !

They are magic , anti witch superpowers bracelets.

Grin

THE POWERS IN THE MACARONI !

Alaya · 16/11/2010 18:39

I don't like Bookcase being upset :( I hope she feels better soon because she's such an awesome friend and friends shouldn't be sad :(

It's so pretty! Thankyou so much! Grin

BookcaseFullofBooks · 16/11/2010 19:33

Thank you for the bracelets and thank you for being my friends.

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IfGraceAsks · 16/11/2010 19:46

I'm a bit scared ... princess grace is a bookish child. Is it OK if I just sit here in my magic cloak, reading "A Children's Greek Mythology"? I can make you a dressing-up doll, if you like

BookcaseFullofBooks · 16/11/2010 19:48

Hello Grace. I like your magic cloak.
There are big teddies here that you can snuggle into while you read, if you like.

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Alaya · 16/11/2010 19:50

Ooooh hello Grace! Come in and read. I like your cloak, that's way cool Grin I like the sound of a dressing up doll, what's it do?

Maybe you could read a story to us later? I like reading sometimes but today I'm a soldier and soldiers are too busy fighting monsters to read but it's okay if you read it to ud because that's different Grin

Alaya · 16/11/2010 19:50

Oops, I meant read to us Blush

IfGraceAsks · 16/11/2010 19:50

Thanks, Bookcase Grin I'm loving being snuggled into a teddy! Nice room :)

IfGraceAsks · 16/11/2010 19:53

Hello, Alaya! You can be Athena The Huntress in my story - she makes soldiers brave and leaders invincible :) Plus, she is very beautiful.

Does that sound like you?

Alaya · 16/11/2010 19:58

That sounds like somebody I want to be Grin Yay! I'm Athena!

Camoflage paint is good for hiding but not for being beautiful so I think I better do some makeup. Want to help me? I never used makeup before and I don't want to look silly Blush

IfGraceAsks · 16/11/2010 20:02

You can't look silly, you're the Goddess Of War! Nobody would dare call you silly Grin
How about gold eyeshadow and brass rings for your plaits?

Alaya · 16/11/2010 20:13

Oooooh that sounds awesome! I like the sound of that and the brass rings will be all tinkly like bells Grin

You are so cool for knowing this stuff!

droves · 16/11/2010 20:29

YAY ! Grace ..... what took you so long to get here ? ....like your book , i wish i was clever and could read like you .Smile

IfGraceAsks · 16/11/2010 21:25

Lol, droves, you're brilliant at jumping - I can tell you stories about jumping, if you like ...

Alaya makes an amazing War Goddess, doesn't she? All jingly and fierce :)

droves · 16/11/2010 21:45

love the eyeshadow alaya .....very goddess.

you look just like she-ra

Grin
Alaya · 17/11/2010 07:57

Thankyou so much! You are the bestest ever friends Grin

Now I can protect everyone even better!

I think we should all wear gold eyeshadow because we're all fierce and brave and then everyone knows that we're friends too Grin

Alaya · 17/11/2010 14:08

Owwwww!!!!!!! I have a toothache :(

The dentist man said I need to take some pills but they're yucky and he said I have to have some sort of shield in my mouth because I pretend to eat too many things when I'm dreaming.

I asked him how I would fit a shield in my mouth when they look so big on knights in shining armour but he couldn't tell me the answer, stupid dentist.

I think I'm just going to sit here and wait for the icky pills to make the pain go away again :(

BookcaseFullofBooks · 17/11/2010 18:24
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Alaya · 17/11/2010 19:32

Thankyou Bookcase :(

My mouth still hurts but I know it will get better soon and then I can have chocolate and share it with everyone :)

BookcaseFullofBooks · 17/11/2010 23:19

I hope nemofish is okay and had a good time at the spa.

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