So angry with dp's callousness, i just want to hit him!

[colditz]

I started bleeding again yesterday, am 9 weeks pg, and have been told I have to go to the EPU and have a scan. So I phoned in sick at work, and I usually work evenings.

Dp took this opportunity to go out with his friends, come in at 3am, and heave all night, totally incapable of looking after out 2 year old today.

He has already had a jug of cold water on his head for moping on the sofa, but I am unspeakably hurt and angry that he left me on my own last night of all nights, and left me to get up with our son this morning.

What are your thoughts on this? If I'm being unfair, say so.

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Really hope you are ok. My bf had a late termination (due to severe foetal abnormalities). Her dp 'coped' during the induction by going out and getting slaughtered with his phone turned off! but she says that he was upset and it was just his way of coping... If he was my dp he'd be coping with a couple of broken legs as well, I think sometimes we excuse them too much!