can they be real friends?

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How can people slag each other off on minute and then be best mates the next! I just don't get it! Any theories?

Because people tend to slag off people they care about..... if people are passionate about someone it ususally means they care deeply, otherwise you just wouldn't bother even talking about them would you?

Lots of people are really two faced and aren't honest about feelings to each other face to face, so slag someone off behind their backs to let off steam.....not necessarily a bad thing always, but human nature nevertheless!

what is the situation?

No, they are not real friends. I never slag my friends off but will happily bitch about people who I don't care about