ex H just told me he's been with a high class hooker

[chosenonetosurvivethenight]

Wow i'm surprised! We split amicably just over 2 months ago and he hit the dating scene with gusto and encouraged me to do the same! I have literally just started seeing someone and am taking it slow! he came round to see the lil ones and took me to one side to tell me! It was a shock for a minute or two and now i feel ok with it, he explained why he felt the need to 'get it out of his system' as a confidence boost etc, im amazed i don't feel more hurt really!!. We hugged and left it at that- I guess we're definately over, its still sad but clearly the right decision. Im posting this just to get it out of my head I think not sure!

I'd just love to know how a man gets a 'confidence boost' from paying for sex. Surely the opposite is true - in that, if you have to pay someone to sleep with you (who is not doing it for her own pleasure but merely putting on an act, in the same way a bored or unsatisfied partner might fake an orgasm) that's pretty degrading to one's confidence isn't it? Or am I missing something?

Aww how sweet of him to share,he sounds a love.

sprogger - that's what I thought it said! I have to admit I'm a little disappointed now, that would have been a brilliant thread :)

Confidence boost? What TheBigAing said...

Mind you, some of the blokes I worked with in the City insisted to me that 100% the expensive women they bought enjoyed sex with them and orgasmed. A fool and his money.....