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I can't live with this person any more.

9 replies

ImDone · 25/09/2010 10:32

Everything I say I have to think about before I say it in case it is taken the wrong way or out of context and a row kicks off again.
I am verbally abused, called names, sworn at, belittled and insulted.
Things are thrown at me. I have been slapped, hit and things I care about are broken.
I'm so tired of living like this.

OP posts:
ModreB · 25/09/2010 10:39

You know what everyone will say. Get out, get away. Speak to Women's Aid, they can help. 0808 2000 247. If you are hit and slapped, ring 999 and call the police. If you have children, they should not be exposed to this, and even if you think that they dont know, belive me they do.

Be strong.

colditz · 25/09/2010 10:41

Call womensaid. You have the right to be treated well, and to leave a situation in which you are not treated well.

Your life will be so much better in 6 months if you leave now.

HerBeatitude · 25/09/2010 10:43

Well done for realising you can't live like this anymore.

Call Women's Aid for the practical steps of what you should do right now.

mumonthenet · 25/09/2010 11:53

No you cannot live with this person anymore.

...and here's the good news...you do not HAVE to live with this person anymore!

Call WA and have a little chat. Your new life started today with your first post!

... and may that beating, abusing, violent bully rot in hell.

booyhoo · 25/09/2010 11:55

"Everything I say I have to think about before I say it in case it is taken the wrong way or out of context and a row kicks off again."

This is the point where i left. I couldn't let it get any worse. you need to leave. now.

perfumedlife · 25/09/2010 12:01

Please leave, this is only going to get worse, if that were possible.

Would he go?

GypsyMoth · 25/09/2010 12:10

that was me 5 years ago.....with 4 dc

went to a hostel,best ever move!!!

now in a new place and very happy!

TooBlessedToBeStressed · 25/09/2010 12:52

please get out,whats coming next?he is going to kill you,

unavailable · 25/09/2010 13:15

OP, What is your relationship with the person who isdoing this to you?

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