How many women don't like oral sex?

[Cleggy36]

Friday night question. We've been married for twenty years and have two DC and a healthy sex life, but my DW doesn't (and never has) liked oral sex (receiving it, that is). She's not prudish at all and when I've asked her about it she says it just doesn't do anything for her. So I'm curious. As a bloke, needless to say I find it hard to believe that anyone couldn't enjoy being on the receiving end, but she clearly doesn't. I doubt if she's alone in this so I'm just wondering how common it is.

we're both enthusiastic here.

(was going to say ''thumbs up'' but then realised how that might sound...)

Love it!
DH is very very very good at it though. I swear I've nearly passed out with pleasure while he's doing it.

I do agree though it can be a bit impersonal. I need to look at him occasionaly or hold his hand/hair/shoulders.
Also I can get chilly if the duvet's off, but he gets too hot if it's over him. He has to fashion a ventilation hole with the covers.

Love kissing afterwards too. DH won't let me kiss him after I've given him OS though. Funny that.

moocowme

"oh are we discussing technique?"

No. No. We are really not going to start discussing technique!

I don't like it (I am too sensitive); however, with the right technique, I can enjoy it [grin. I think it really does depend on the technique because there are billions of nerve endings on the clitoris so some form of touch will produce some form of sensation. I think that if you experiment with different techniques; soft and gentle circular motions with both tongue and finger, gently biting on the clit while sucking etc just might produce a positive reaction!

Good luck!

SA

Oh gawd you've made me feel like I'm weird now as I said I don't like kissing afterwards!

I am freshly showered before, I just don't like the thought of kissing him when he's been down there. I don't know why! Why is it ok to not like oral sex, but odd to like oral sex but not like kissing him after???!

you're not odd schilke, took me a while to get used to it tbh but i like it now. different strokes!

Love it.

Sometimes I'm just far too tickley and can't stop laughing, other times it's spot on. Strange.

It's the best. Like 69 too.

One ex was so good at it it made me fall in love with him just by that alone.

Love it.

IMHO I think that for some women that dont like it its because they have difficulty in 'letting go', they feel too exposed/embarrassed as its 'all about them'

also issues about 'down there' being unclean tend to come up around this subject.

I love it, DH is especially good at it and we do it every time we make love. He loves it and so do I. I can't come through penitration so without it sex would be a non starter for me. Good job we both like it!
We always both have a wash before sex anyway and neither of us minds kissing afetrwards. I could never be with someone who didn't enjoy it, I find it very intimate and DH always lets me go first and then while I am basking in post cum heaven he jumps on!!

For a long time I didn't enjoy it but I figured out it was ME not doing it right, not him. With previous partners, I didn't help things along by focusing the "build up" down there. If I just lie there completely still, it's nice and everything but isn't going to make me have an orgasm. But if I straighten and tense my legs and squeeze all the necessary muscles, almost like doing a pelvis floor exercise, takes me like 20 seconds to get where I wanna be.

Oh, and forgot to say, it's now the best thing in the entire world.