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I confronted him and he confessed

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UtterlyDevastated · 10/09/2010 15:56

Been with dp over a year, don't live together, although he has mentioned this as a natural progression.

Was looking at my email and as he is on my contact list it showed that he and another woman were 'friends'.

Confronted him this morning and he said he couldn't remember adding her to his msn, although he did log in with me there and she was on his contacts. Move on a few hours later and he confesses that he signed up with an on line sex meet up web site and was emailing her, which obviously progressed to msn and god knows what else. He has said that he realised that he wanted to be with me and though wtf was he doing, so no more contact, according to him - this was all by text as I was at work.

Obviously so many questions going through my mind, am meeting him later to hear a full confession.

I am devastated, angry and a whole lot more, just needed to vent.

OP posts:
UtterlyDevastated · 17/09/2010 20:01

I can't give him options for collection, he has given me options to meet and talk about something that is supposedly so important to him, but obviously not til after the jolly he is on at the weekend.

He will be lucky that his stuff doesn't end up at the car boot this weekend. Am thinking that I could drop his stuff off at his business and let the scavengers get to them

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Malificence · 17/09/2010 20:54

He's done you a huge favour by showing his true personality now and not in a couple of years when you've bought a house or started a family with this loser.
There are decent men out there who don't do this kind of sleazy, scummy thing, move on up, as they say. Smile

SheWillBeLoved · 17/09/2010 22:29

Pop the air bed, that'll make you feel better Grin

Very lucky escape, and you're coping amazingly, you really are. Stay strong, you have to, because the only other option is to have that scum bag in your life, bleurgh!

clam · 18/09/2010 13:13

"Pop the airbed." Grin
Like your style, SWBL.

Aminata100 · 18/09/2010 14:08

Yea, that's a great one, "Pop the airbed" LOL

Seriously tho, so sorry you have to go thru this, but it IS a lucky escape! Imagine discovering this x years down the line!

Personally, I'd be down to the clinic for an STD test myself if I discovered my DP was living two separate realities Shock

PfftTheMagicDragon · 26/09/2010 13:51

Just reading your thread, Utterly. Hope you are feeling better, or at least not so shitty Smile

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