3some

[deburca]

Had heated discussion about this today during lunch. 8 girls 6/2 against. I think its quite dangerous for a relationship not to mention healthwise.

Wha

When I was a teenager my best friend (female) and I were messing around with another friend (male). Somehow things all got a bit 'heated' although we didn't actually have sex.

Poor bloke. We swore him to secrecy and I bet that NOBODY believes him now if he recounts the tale in the pub.

BenHer

"I personally think that blokes who crave the two women at the same time experience are on some kind of ego trip,it's just not practical.Unless you were born with two cocks of course!"

Or one of the women has a strap-on

right enough cleggy, didnt think of that

Ladies has anyone else out there tried this where is hasnt resulted in bad feeling in their relationship?

deb

venus, I think you need to accept that bloke will have been dining out on his tale for many years . NO bloke will keep a secret like that, sorry

but if it gives him a nice warm glow whilst he sits with his pipe and slippers by the fire when he is very old, all to the good . A nice yarn for the grandchildren, what...

there was a poster on here (I won't name, but she still posts here) who had an absolutely horrendous experience with a 3-some (think STD's and you get the idea...)

I am a bit surprised that the only confessions on here (so far) are MMF experiences

and coolfonz, as usual, makes me LOL

myself and my other half were propositioned by a lady in our local.

i was a few vinos over the limit if you get my drift so I didnt immediately understand. She was bi and I thought we were have a general conversation, until she shrugged and said to my DH, Well I tried! lol

honestly i must be getting old I was so shocked! lol

My DH thought it very funny/flattering and spent the whole walk home texting his mates to tell them!

deb

ah, the raison d'etre for your thread, deb ?

perhaps you wish you had given it a go ?

do you know what Anyfucker if it was 2 men I might have, girls just dont do it for me though. When I mentioned to the DH that if a guy had have suggested it would he have went for it he got very nervy and said "mother of jaysus no!" (he is a bit shamrocky at times, irish heritage, ended up with us both pissed as newts barely able to stand for the laughing)

do you think you would if the right circumstances you would? in this englightened and adventurous times we live in - this is a question by the way, not a request

I did it once. It was terrible. My boyfriend of the time got jealous in the middle and smashed a window and walked out. It was cold. I thought I might as well shag the other bloke as he was there (for warmth). He was crap - he had this odd style where he would go really fast for a few seconds and then rest then start the fast stuff again.

The next morning I found his sock - a Bart Simpson one with a hole in it.

I don't do drugs any more.

Bear after that experience I wouldnt do sex again! lol

deb...the fantasy sounds fantastic (MMF), but tbh, I think I am too much of a coward

I would start off full of bravado, but then shit my keks and run away I'll bet

maybe in another life ?

< please, people, no comments about "you only get one life...>

maybe if I was 20 years old

but starting this kind of shenanigans in your 40's just seems a bit too reader's (fat, sweaty, ugly) wives to me

and I am none of those things, so I guess I will hang on to my dignity (and shag my DH's brains out all by myself )

im with you there anyFucker. Ive never had a one night stand and the one time I tried I ended up saying my allergies had flared up and I needed to head home, cue and hurriedly crossing to the other side of the road anytime I saw him after that.

Sometimes I think I should be a little more adventurous. I mean im young, reasonably attractive (did a bit of modelling/promotional stuffy stuff for commercial companies).

Maybe you would need to have 10 pints/vinos in you to get up the nerve, might be the best experience of your life or the worst

interesting though ......... mr deburca is reading this over my shoulder and laughing - lol

deb

MrD reads your threads ?

I don't show DH the bollocks I write on here

I have had one night stands

Unfortunately they were when I was young and foolish and picked twats to have them with
...the sex was mostly shite

If I were to go back and have them again, I would choose more wisely

I knew a guy and these two girls who were about 24 and stunning, I mean truly beautiful one was his girlfriend and the other was lets say bi- curious. After a drunken night the girls were literally rolling around on the floor with it all hanging out dragging him to join them but he just bottled it ...it may be every man's fantasy but the reality is another thing I think

yes AF, he does on occasion read my posts, I tell him about them anyway most of the time. He is very fair minded and can give great advice, alot of my female friends tend to gravitate towards him for a male perspective. As for the one nite stands, Ive heard various reports.

GrapeandLemon I could well imagine someone bottling it, I too would bottle it.

Im just too much of a chicken! lol

very admiring of people who are comfortable enough with themselves to do it though - i just couldnt do it

deb