i am sick and tired of our stupid whinging bloody families

[Fio2]

do they not think we have enough to cope with, without their petty little ramblings

" Oh their down lets kick them further"

I am just about to lose my marbles with them, infact i feel physically sick today at the thought of ever having to speak to my in-laws again

what happened?

Fio2 - I have been away from Mumsnet for a while ( back - now that the kids ar back at school ) and have not followed your problems .... however I can empathise with the "in-law problems"
Mine are a total nightmare ....

$ years ago ( literally to the day ) I cut them out of my life ... DH and the kids still see them ... but I do feel so much better because of it. This may not be an option for you ...

SO all I can say is {{{{HUGS}}}}

i am too angry to even comprehend what i will write. My MIL rang my husband yesterday to just put him down and I am so angry. he answered her back for the first time since I have ever met him and she told him she thought he was a "sarcastic weirdo" because he was so consumed with anger about our daughters problems

honestly i just want to cry, why do people have to be so bloody nasty and cruel?

Some people are just selfish they can't see past their own sad little lives.

how horrid for you and lovely DH

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I would think as well if she thinks that her own son is a wierdo then what does that say about her?! She brought him up!

Some people are lacking in understanding and love. She sounds really mean.

don't get sick - get made and do some spring cleaning. WHat a toxic woman - to think that of her own son and not to even appreciate that he has a right to be angry about Mini Fio issues.

Good for Dh though on standing up to her.... sometimes it is hard but a few years ago I came to the conclusion that if people did not enhance my life then they were not worth having in my life - especially those that were dragging and putting me down. I deserved better than that in my life.

Sorry to hear that they are giving you a tough time. As if you don't have enough on your plate to deal with - this is out of order.