My OH's ex.

[dunnowhereiam]

Just need some thought's on this please.

My OH has a ex his 'first love' she was my friend then we didn't see each other for years anyway she is in contact with me but he never want's to talk about her,ever!!

He say's he is over her but i'm not so sure.

well.... how would you feel if he was getting matey with your "first love" and wanted to talk about him?

i can totally understand why he wouldn't want to talk about her much

No i was really good mates(with ex)before they got together and have been friend's with her for years.

Why ask me what she has said if in the next sentence he says he does not want to talk about her?

Oh and i wouldn't know because i have never been in love so don't really get it.

bump.

Because he still likes her?

It's not so unusual and it might make way, if you can get through the jealousy, for a good relationship between you all.

Is that what you think celtic? that's what i thought but he said he doesnt so he's lieing to me then i knew it.

Considering he dumped me for her then yes their is a slight pang of jealousy.

Why are you so bothered if you don't love him? Honestly I think you sound a bit mixed up yourself.

I think you have got this all wrong. Why on Earth would he want to talk about his ex with you?

I have never been in love before but i love him thought he was 'the one' but i think we are done now not playing second best.

We talk about everything thought we was mates to but obviously not seen as he lied.

Either you are not wording your posts clearly or in the written word you are coming across as quite unstable yourself.

You took him off another woman and now wonder if he still has feelings for her right? If that's the case then tough.

How do you know he has lied, is it normal for you to be this paranoid, or just about her?

No not at all.

I am obviously not wording it correct at all.

Emmyloulou - I'm quite disspointed in how abrupt you are being towards me.

Years ago i went out with him he dumped me to be wit her.
They were together for years she cheated on him REPEATLY he left, years later we met up again and we are now together, i still speak to his ex.

Shineon - I have asked him and he keeps lieing.

[bisciut]
Some of your post dont make sense.
You do want him to e friends with his ex? Did he call her "his true love"?

How do you know he is lying if you are asking him about his feelings?

I'm not sure why you would get back with someone who dumped you for someone else or why you would be friends with the person you were dumped for either. It all sounds a bit odd tbh.

Oh shineon i know your sarcastic but please save it for trolls.Thanks.

He married it so yeh i would kinda say he loved her.

And please dont biscuit me i'm not a newbie.

Casmama - That is very true :(

Why exactly do i deserve it please enlighten me?

What in my post points to me being a bad person?

I was trying to guess why you would be rude too me or do you just feel like it? if thats the case hope it has made you feel better.