I just thought I would write to to tell everyone in the process of divorce/splitting with partner that they will be fine!
Two months ago my now ex told me he no longer loved me and that he didnt want to be with me anymore. I took my children and moved into a rented place.
When he first told me I thought my world was going to end and felt physical pain at the loss of the long relationship that we had. But over the last couple of weeks I have come to realise that I am fine! All the cliches that were given to me about time being a healer and that I'll be alright were all true even though I didn't believe them at the time.
Now my kids are settled and actually happier now there are no bad vibes around them and I actually see my new place as home which I never thought I would.
So the simple message for all of you who have been recently ditched -
YOU WILL BE FINE, you WILL be happy again, you WILL live your life without him and you WILL be damned happy doing it
The End
(Bows and gets off soapbox) 