quick advice please

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I fell out with my best friend 9 mths ago, she got involved in mine and another friends bust up. Anyway me and my dh tried to sort things out but it fell on deaf ears!

we have not spoken since, I have just minutes ago found out her dh as passed away, he had bowel cancer.

I'm in a dilemma whether to send a card or not!!!

Are 2 six year olds still play together at school, but like I said we haven't spoken for 9mths

What we you do, should I send a card or just leave it??

Definatly send a card, even if you never speak again. Definatly.

I would definately send a card

Send a card and do it today if possible.

thank you, always rely on advice fro here!!
I know it's the right thing to do, just needed some else to say it.

will get a card later at work and pop it through letter box.

Do it.

How she choses to react is entirely up to her and do not be offended if you do not hear from her for awhile.

Send a card - say how sorry you are, and how you will always treasure the good times you shared. Tell her she knows where you are if she needs you. You may never hear from her - but no matter - she will know you care and although she's numb with pain at the moment there will come a time when it means a lot to her.

yeah def be the bigger person and send a card, it might even path the way for you both to be friends again.