Initiating sex.

[SiriusStar]

How do you or you partners make it known that you/they want to have sex?
Do you have "moves" or do you say something?

That's it really, just curious as dh has taken to just coming out bluntly and asking.

Just say it. Very bluntly. Usually "d'you fancy a shag?"

Also quite often we will have 'planned' to have sex that night or to meet at home straight after work while dd still at Childminder. (this usually happens when one of us has suggested sex and the other says "no, I'm too tired but let's do it tomorrow night for definite") In those cases we often start sending each other dirty texts or making suggestive comments / looks / gestures a few hours before to heat things up before the 'date'.

Kissing...mmm...sharing a shower is a good start too

Do you want cock?

omg, goober, are you my DH ?

Mostly just by the odd naughty tickle as i pass him throughout the evening. then in bed it is just a once thing leads to the other form of kissing.

Though tbh i have it every morning and night so it is more a case of saying no rather than yes.

No I am not AF.
He only says it cos it cracks me up (and I always say yes.)

me too

I am not envious at all of you all with your plenty-of-sex lives and your nice men. Just go away. Stop it. You are making me not-envious.

When he does want it, usually comes to bed with a stonker on, no pants, flings bag the bedclothes and starts tugging my nightwear off.

That usually makes it obvious.

Pants on and no moves, equals = no rumpy for me tonight.

Straddling him and saying "give it to me big boy" usually works in this house .

That actually works??

Some variant of 'come here' if it's an early evening job, or he'll come to bed and start groping my bum if I'm already in bed. I never initiate it cos I don't need to - I just pick and choose when I fancy it cos he always does

Oh yes.

Sometimes he'll play hard to get and be all stern, he knows that gets me going, he makes me really work for it .

Sounds like hard work, we have a slapping sesh and I try to smack his bum as hard as poss then he smacks mine and we have a bit of playfighting. this sounds all kinky doesn't it?

I like a good hard bit of spanking.

I just like sex, when I can get it.

I've always felt it's better to be upfront. I once told someone I fancied ' I like you, think you like me, do you fancy a fuck?'. He was quite surprised but appreciated the honesty and was grateful I wasn't going to play hard to get. Am similarly honest with dh now. It's great!