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Awful messy break-up after years together

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BitOfFun · 21/07/2010 11:30

Hi all- my SIL is new to mumsnet after I told her how brilliant you lot were at advice, so can you lend a hand? I have copied and pasted her post lost in someone else's thread in Legal to start her off, as she's finding it a bit tricky to navigate. Don't let me down girls!

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Elegance Wed 21-Jul-10 11:11:54
Hi all, I hope someone can help me!
My husband and i have seperated as i disscoverd his affair! hearing him on his phone with this woman made it very clear. he is now staying with his father and is telling me to sell the house i live in with our two sons who are 18 and 22 both just left full time education. my husband now works freelance so i cant prove he is working and he is telling me he has no work. we have been married for 29yrs and i havnt worked for years as iv helped him with his own companys. we have alot of debt so would break even if sold all assets. but he is due to inherit almost a million from his father who is 82 and not in the best of health. (may sound awfull but my husband has lost us alot of money in the past eg, a hundred thousand pounds on a film that never made us a return). sorry to be soooo long winded but hope someone can help me.

OP posts:
Elegance · 29/07/2010 13:44

Hi all,
solicitors went aswell as could be expected, he wasn't great. my ex has put money in bank and said he wants to do the right thing! not sure he knows what that is, but hey ho!
i am looking into getting a job and going on job seekers allowance for now if im entitled.
ex txt me last night and asked if he could take me to lunch on our 30th anniversary and said it would mean everything to him!! I replied this morning to say im still very hurt but maybe by then we could be friends as its only 29yrs this yr, and i dont feel im quite there yet.
I think he thinks its today, but its not until 31st of this month.

Mouseface · 31/07/2010 11:01

Elegance

Oh dear re the anniversary!

Good news on the solicitor and the job hunting.

Check out taz credits too, you may be entitled to money through them.

Keep going, you're doing so well!!

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