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Confused and upset by porn he is watching

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sparkleshine · 19/07/2010 21:58

Ok so me and DP have been together for 7yrs and very happy. We've a DS who is 7mths.
A few days ago I was on Internet and when looking at the history for something else, spotted this swinging website he's been looking at and not just once either.

So I think ok that's what he's been up to..... since i got pg last march our sex life has nose dived dramatically so don't blame him.......
Well turns out he's already logged in and been registered in there since 2006.
Well it's got allsorts of stuff on there and I guess I don't have to explain.

The good news is that people can send u messages and vice versa which there is none in his inbox. I don't believe he would cheat on me.

But his name on there is the name of our son. Anyone find this weird and wrong? I guess he loves the name as do I but to call your son knowing it's the name on your porn account?

Also these people are 'normal', not plastic porn model type women. Is it better or worse that he's looking at these? In some ways I thunk better coz a 'real' woman he obviously likes.

I'm so confused and not sure what to think right now.

OP posts:
DrunkenDaisy · 19/07/2010 22:01

the name of your son!!!!!!!

cut his cock off for that alone. what an arsehole.

GypsyMoth · 19/07/2010 22:04

swinging websites is not porn!!

thoses websites are for meeting up with like minded people for sex.....porn sites are to look at images of women,not interact with them

Rafwife · 19/07/2010 22:04

Er yes it's weird and no I wouldn't feel comfortable with a swinging site as there will no doubt be interaction.

funnysinthegarden · 19/07/2010 22:07

very weird all round. I would be furious and upset in the extreme, esp as he used the name of your son. Have you asked him what he's playing at?

Zondra · 19/07/2010 22:07

This doesn't sound at all good.

As for using the name of your son this is creepy & so very,very wrong! It would turn my stomach!

GypsyMoth · 19/07/2010 22:08

what does his profile say?

Zondra · 19/07/2010 22:11

You must confront him with this! Is he at he with you tonight? I would find it impossible to have not had it out with him yet!
He needs to answer questions!

MoonUnitAlpha · 19/07/2010 22:11

So he used the name on the swinging site 4 years ago, and has now named your son the same name?

Thoughtless in the extreme, but I guess he does really like the name.

Zondra · 19/07/2010 22:12

home not he. Bloody iPhone!

rupert22 · 19/07/2010 23:11

your son's name!

TakeLovingChances · 21/07/2010 16:10

I can 100% why you're

Is very very odd that he used your son's name!

Dinkytinky · 21/07/2010 16:22

really really weird, i agree that those websites are for meeting like minded members - does he have a profile? It's very creepy that he used ds name, confront him and make him channge it immediatly

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