have finally left him

[wornoutbyarguing]

well where do i satrt,,,,after 10 years of being married to a pretty messed up guy i have finally moved today,,,am going to admit am dead scared tonight first night in new pad with my dds aged 9 and 7 but have finally made the break

my husband is a porn addict and rubbish hoarder of the worst kind

i finally after years of him using cybersex sites,m**g everynight to ladyboys and finding out in last few weeks he has being looking for massage parlours found the guts to say adios

we went to relate ,i had to go to counsellors over the years,lived off antidepressants and felt so lonely and miserable and now i just sit here to nite thinking bloody hell i have done it.

i thought i would be sobbing 2nite and miserable but I must have cried so hard over the last few months am all cried out.

i just wanted to say to all those women on here who put up with so much unhappieness from their partners.DONT, grab the bull by the horns and go for it,

tara x

Good for you! Well done. I wish you all the best for your new and bright future.

You are so brave. Best wishes for a wonderful new life for you and your DDs

Well done, and to other women in the same position, i take it you would advise them not to wait as long?

Wish you and the kids lots of happy times in your new home.

Well done, I did it before, and after today looks like I may have to again. Women are so much stronger than men. X

well done for making the move....hope the future seems brighter now, even if it's just a glimmer at the moment x

Well done for getting out, all the best wishes for a peaceful and happy future x

Well done, you are already winning