have finally left him

[wornoutbyarguing]

well where do i satrt,,,,after 10 years of being married to a pretty messed up guy i have finally moved today,,,am going to admit am dead scared tonight first night in new pad with my dds aged 9 and 7 but have finally made the break

my husband is a porn addict and rubbish hoarder of the worst kind

i finally after years of him using cybersex sites,m**g everynight to ladyboys and finding out in last few weeks he has being looking for massage parlours found the guts to say adios

we went to relate ,i had to go to counsellors over the years,lived off antidepressants and felt so lonely and miserable and now i just sit here to nite thinking bloody hell i have done it.

i thought i would be sobbing 2nite and miserable but I must have cried so hard over the last few months am all cried out.

i just wanted to say to all those women on here who put up with so much unhappieness from their partners.DONT, grab the bull by the horns and go for it,

tara x

hugs

thank you x

Well done!
I hope you inspire the multitude of MNetters who seem to be stuck in relationships with crap, lazy and/or abusive men to get out.

I say well done to you

I wish fewer women would put up with such shit treatment for the
sake of being in a relationship

you are strong and should be fucking proud of yourself

Agree with Anyfucker. You should be proud of yourself for giving your children and you a better future. Congratulations!

well done you - your happiness is finally in your hands!

aawww thanks guys it feels so good right now and my dds seem fine about their having a bedroom each no bickering at bed time 2nite..lol

i have spent so much time worrying about what he was doing last few years forgot about my needs and self respect ,but 2nite dont have to worry about anything but me and dds,,,

i hope other women in bad relationships can read this in know it is possible to escape/find a new life too xxx

well done - you are very brave

girly, stick around won't you, and make sure others in your situation know thy don't have to put up with such shit

congratulations: now your life begins, as does that of your DC. You are brave and strong and, when it gets tough - remember -he is a loser and you and the DC are better off withoug=t him.