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Post-pregnancy sex

12 replies

hora · 14/07/2010 13:02

Just get to the point is the best policy? (I was wondering how to type/tackle this post)

Its a little 'dry'.

Using a lubricant is fine however do matters improve naturally?

Before, obviously there were no problems and it was a joy!

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LadySanders · 14/07/2010 13:08

I breast fed ds2 for 14 months and i have to say it stayed 'a little dry' that whole time, resolved extremely quickly once i stopped feeding, if that helps.

EcoMouse · 14/07/2010 13:09

How long since pregnancy/birth?

hora · 14/07/2010 13:13

14 weeks

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EcoMouse · 14/07/2010 13:16

Nerves, stress, discomfort can all create situations whereby sufficient arousal isn't reached resulting in a lack of lubrication. These are all common following pregnancy.

Some contraceptives can cause dryness, as can breastfeeding.

liquid silk!

hora · 14/07/2010 13:46

liquid silk!- Why not KY???

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EcoMouse · 14/07/2010 14:24

Because liquid silk's better! I've heard. More pleasant, effective and natural (feeling) by far.

While you're using lube, why not experiment?!

Acanthus · 14/07/2010 14:27

I still need the lube...

hora · 14/07/2010 15:15

Acanthus - how long now?

Eco....will try..... always fun to!

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EcoMouse · 14/07/2010 16:39

Not forgetting lots of oral play, general play (not monopoly!) and achievement of multi-orgasms by one or both partners could lessen the need for synthetic lube.

hora · 14/07/2010 17:29

"Not forgetting lots of oral play, general play (not monopoly!) and achievement of multi-orgasms by one or both partners could lessen the need for synthetic lube."

Did you just describe Utopia?

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sunny2010 · 15/07/2010 08:09

always start in 69 and have an orgasm first.

Acanthus · 15/07/2010 10:44

11 years! But I don't really mind - lube makes it nicer, somehow.

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