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It appears DH as a mobile account that I don't know about

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wanttobepractical · 13/07/2010 10:42

Dh left last week (although has returned and is sleeping in spare room)and I have been going through practical stuff and paperwork to get a handle on things. Looking at his bank account it would appear he has had a new mobile since march and there is a message in his email account telling that is online bill is ready to view and how much this months payment is. I've tried accessing the mobile account online but withou passwords or the mobile number I'm stuck.

Advice please. Knowing that I have access to his banking and email would he be really stupid enough to set up a mobile acount online??

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GypsyMoth · 13/07/2010 10:45

is there a way you could get a new password sent to his email?

wanttobepractical · 13/07/2010 10:51

tried that but you have to enter the phone number

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WhenwillIfeelnormal · 13/07/2010 11:00

While he is in, but sleeping, look on your own phone for bluetooth devices within the vicinity. If an unknown mobile is identified, go looking for it. Cars, sheds and places you don't normally look in are likely places.

If using Firefox, go into tools, then options, then security and click on saved passwords. He might have saved it there, or asked the computer to do so.

Assume you've trawled back through the E mails to note when he first registered for online billing? There might be clues in that E mail.

wanttobepractical · 13/07/2010 11:07

I can see how long he's had it from his bank statement. TBH I think this marriage is down the toilet anyway so not sure I even care. God I'm tired

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msboogie · 13/07/2010 11:07

Secret mobile = OW

It might not be a phone though - could just be a second sim couldn't it?

He's had it since March and you have only found the email now, perhaps he was covering his tracks until he left and then stopped bothering?

wanttobepractical · 13/07/2010 11:13

Oh tits it would appear that it's not a second mobile he moved contracts just noticed that his direct debit for old phone company stopped at same time.

Oh well looks like he's back to being a regular twat not a mega twat.

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abedelia · 13/07/2010 12:10

You would be amazed at how stupid some men are when an OW is on the scene. Mine left all emails on the computer where I could have easily found them (if I hadn't trusted him so much so never looked - mug that I was!). I think he thought being 'in love' gave him some sort of invisibility cloak, or that because he'd made up that excuse to justify his crappy behaviour to himself then he wasn't actually doing anything wrong, delusional git!!

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