Fair enough! Hadn't thought of it like that. She tends to get peoples emotions wound up i think you;re better off reading for yourself and making your mind up from there.
When i was a first time mummy, I thought she sounded an absolute nightmare...then a few years later actually picked up a book and it didn't seem too bad! Everything with a pinch of salt and all that, as with all advice......Any ideas that may help are good IMO. You don't have to stick to them....