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Archers thread #166: Choppy waters in Ambridge! Look out for the red flags and discuss The Archers here.

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 22/05/2024 21:38

Thank you, @PseudoBadger, for kicking off this long, long series of Archers threads.

Archers All views on The Archers welcome here! New blood welcomed, and of course we are always delighted to welcome back former or occasional listeners/posters. We don't all agree on all points, although we do mostly try to be civil about it. Most of us are posting tongue in cheek a lot of the time, so don't worry about revealing that you'd love to be married to Harrison, or other unusual views. Grin

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TottersDeterminedlyTowardsThePollingStation · 04/06/2024 10:18

You know when Freddie went off to the Mediterranean with Johnny and came back erm … fronting (?) about his wild time as a superstar DJ? And then confessed that the trip had been a disaster. Surely Lily must have known all along? Even if Elizabeth didn’t guess, I find it hard to believe he’d have been able to continuously misrepresent his situation when speaking to his twin sister.

TottersDeterminedlyTowardsThePollingStation · 04/06/2024 10:39

(Sorry, just random musing, not in response to any recent posts!)

MereDintofPandiculation · 04/06/2024 10:43

Eastie77Returns · 04/06/2024 10:10

Most of the above is very odd but I don't think it's unusual for someone in Freddie's position to have no real idea of what life is like for someone on a low income.

There is an open thread at the moment on the Money Matters board regarding the late Child Benefit payment fiasco that has impacted thousands of parents this week. Dozens of people on the thread commented that the missed payment means they do not have any money at all to buy food, top up electricity or pay for their child's bus fare to school. These comments were met with utter disbelief by a few people who replied that they cannot understand how anyone could possibly find themselves in that position, surely everyone has at least a spare £20 etc. Poverty is well hidden in this country and it's quite difficult for some people to understand just how prevalent and entrenched it has become.

There was a story this week about a carer who’d stopped her carer’s allowance for the week she was over the earnings limit, tried to reinstate it the following week and months later still hasn’t got the payment. Meanwhile she’s racking up credit card interest. I thought about that when the late child benefit broke and thought, it’s all very well the government saying everyone will get paid, but I bet they won’t compensate them for all the extra costs incurred by not having the money when they needed it.

Meanwhile, if my bank messed up, I stand an excellent chance of being fully compensated for extra interest payments incurred, not to mention my time dealing with the problem. Partly it’s that the bank wants to retain its customers, partly it’s another way that your vulnerability is multiplied if you don’t have money.

JayAlfredPrufrock · 04/06/2024 10:52

I can remember getting the letter about my DD’s ski trip in her last year at school in 2018. ‘Gosh’ I said ‘That’s the price of a small car’.
(It was a lot more than £1000)

I dread to think of how busy my Foodbank will have been on Monday and today with the missed payments.

Godesstobe · 04/06/2024 11:21

MsCheeryble · 04/06/2024 09:00

Is Freddie going to be Fairy Godfather and send the money for the ski trips?

I was thinking that Jason's twins, thwarted of their skiing trip, might team up with Markie and attack Freddie with crampons and ice picks, but I think the Fairy Godmother SL is probably more likely - although you can never be sure with TA at the moment.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 04/06/2024 11:48

LillianGish · 04/06/2024 09:40

My thoughts exactly! Kenton dog attack huge drama - then nothing, George frames Alice for road accident - then nothing - if/when we eventually return to these flashpoints we will all have forgotten the finer detail and will be calling on @AskingQuestionsAllTheTime for a recap. Maybe that's the idea - so that when/if we eventually get back to it, history can be rewritten to generate yet more drama. This is exactly what happened with The Flood - where Knob blocked the culvert and Stefan went missing generating huge speculation and debate which was never adequately resolved. It makes for very unsatisfactory listening. I much prefer the drip, drip, drip approach to storytelling - where the clues are there and gradually build up often over a very long time scale (Kate's alcoholism, Knob's abuse) - to the crash, bang wallop of a huge drama which then stops abruptly.

LillianGish
we will all have forgotten the finer detail and will be calling on @AskingQuestionsAllTheTime for a recap

And I shall apply, as I usually do, to the synopses at https://ambridgereporter.org.uk/synopses/ ! Also to the BBC ones, which are available on the BBC website but not so easy to access.

Knob blocked the culvert and Stefan went missing generating huge speculation and debate which was never adequately resolved

It was for me. Stefan had done exactly as he had said he would and as he was reported as having done, and gone home to his own country. At a later date, he came back to Ambridge and tried to blackmail Rob into paying him enough money for some business deal he was getting involved in, and, when Rob would not pay, went to Rob's employer Justin and spilled the beans in exchange for the cash he needed. He then went away again. On the strength of what Stefan had told him, Justin sacked Rob.

TottersDeterminedlyTowardsThePollingStation · 04/06/2024 12:21

Poor Jason. (Slightly.) I wonder what story he’s had to make up to tell his wife? She might not believe sudden redundancy. Maybe he’ll keep on ‘going to work’ while he figures out what to do.

VoxPop · 04/06/2024 12:31

it’s all very well the government saying everyone will get paid, but I bet they won’t compensate them for all the extra costs incurred by not having the money when they needed it.”

In the interest of balance, it was announced a few times on the radio yesterday that anyone who had incurred extra costs due to this should submit a claim form (of which they gave details). So presumably anyone enquiring about this will be told the same. Although from my experience of calling HMRC (if that is who is responsible) good luck with that, not to mention the cost of hanging on for often over an hour with 0300 calls if you don’t have a phone contract with inclusive minutes. At least calling DWP is free.

Fink · 04/06/2024 12:31

Eastie77Returns · 04/06/2024 10:10

Most of the above is very odd but I don't think it's unusual for someone in Freddie's position to have no real idea of what life is like for someone on a low income.

There is an open thread at the moment on the Money Matters board regarding the late Child Benefit payment fiasco that has impacted thousands of parents this week. Dozens of people on the thread commented that the missed payment means they do not have any money at all to buy food, top up electricity or pay for their child's bus fare to school. These comments were met with utter disbelief by a few people who replied that they cannot understand how anyone could possibly find themselves in that position, surely everyone has at least a spare £20 etc. Poverty is well hidden in this country and it's quite difficult for some people to understand just how prevalent and entrenched it has become.

I agree that many people have no idea what it's like to live hand to mouth and genuinely not have a back-up option if an expected payment doesn't come on time. My point is that Freddie is an odd choice of character to be discovering that. He has had much more exposure to real poverty than any of the other middle-class characters, with the exception of the nouveaux riches like Vince.

VoxPop · 04/06/2024 12:37

TottersDeterminedlyTowardsThePollingStation · 04/06/2024 12:21

Poor Jason. (Slightly.) I wonder what story he’s had to make up to tell his wife? She might not believe sudden redundancy. Maybe he’ll keep on ‘going to work’ while he figures out what to do.

:) like the full Monty revisited. The bailiffs will give him away, unless he has a gang of semi naked pals to frighten them off.

Darksideofthemoonbump · 04/06/2024 12:46

How big is Casey Meats? How many worksites these days have enough people these days to justify the overheads of a canteen and a gym? The last place I worked there were about 45 people sharing two kettles, two microwaves and a dishwasher.

Back to foreign school trips, I’m told they are a nightmare of planning and risk assessments, not to mention the toll of being in loco parentis for 24 hours a day.

Eastie77Returns · 04/06/2024 14:25

MsCheeryble · 04/06/2024 09:00

Is Freddie going to be Fairy Godfather and send the money for the ski trips?

Does Freddie have access to any money? I’m not sure how it all works in terms of a trust or fund. Neither he nor Lily appear to be independently wealthy.

TheUsualChaos · 04/06/2024 14:35

I think Freddie and Lizzie are encouraged to earn their own way and they aren't given money to throw around. I'm not even sure Elizabeth has a big pot of cash herself, the wealth is all tied up in the estate and it's running costs. But ultimately they are still in that privileged position that they know they will always have a (very nice) roof over their heads and money to fall back on should it all go tits up. They really have no clue how life is on the other side of the coin. Freddie perhaps has seen more of the real world than his sister though and seems more down to earth. He has always seemed a bit uncomfortable with the idea of generational wealth.

MereDintofPandiculation · 04/06/2024 15:37

VoxPop · 04/06/2024 12:31

it’s all very well the government saying everyone will get paid, but I bet they won’t compensate them for all the extra costs incurred by not having the money when they needed it.”

In the interest of balance, it was announced a few times on the radio yesterday that anyone who had incurred extra costs due to this should submit a claim form (of which they gave details). So presumably anyone enquiring about this will be told the same. Although from my experience of calling HMRC (if that is who is responsible) good luck with that, not to mention the cost of hanging on for often over an hour with 0300 calls if you don’t have a phone contract with inclusive minutes. At least calling DWP is free.

Oh good! I was unduly pessimistic.

moggerhanger · 04/06/2024 16:07

Is Fallon's gift of an anthology of Larkin's poetry going to lead Harrison to read "This Be The Verse", and thus trigger an understanding of why Fallon doesn't want children? (Do we know why she's against the idea - I know it was first storylined a couple of years ago.)

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 04/06/2024 16:20

I see no reason for her to have to account to him or anyone for her decision that she does not want children, dashitall!

The onus was on him, at the point at which he decided words to the effect "she looks well fuckable, I'll have that one", to find out whether she was fecund as well, to meet his other requirement of a woman. He really should have established that before he started to stalk her, I feel.

Gonners · 04/06/2024 16:43

@AskingQuestionsAllTheTime ... I see no reason for her to have to account to him or anyone for her decision that she does not want children, dashitall!

Absolutely! She told him, and that was enough. I've never felt the need to account to anyone for my total lack of interest in having children: anyone who wanted children knew where the door was. Similarly, I have no wish to go sky-diving, or on a cruise, or to have a Brazilian butt-lift. I do not need to provide reasons for any of these either.

moggerhanger · 04/06/2024 16:44

I agree with the sentiments - I'm just trying to catch up on plotlines (having not been immersed in it up to now!)

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 04/06/2024 17:05

It might be that Fallon's experience of being an unwanted child with an absentee father might have soured her on the idea slightly, I suppose. Not just an absentee: a father who made it clear in her teens, when she appealed to him for help, that he wanted nothing to do with her. That she subsequently forgave the waster, and even helped him when he was in need himself, indicates a sweetness of character that is quite wasted on Harrison.

MsCheeryble · 04/06/2024 17:28

Eastie77Returns · 04/06/2024 14:25

Does Freddie have access to any money? I’m not sure how it all works in terms of a trust or fund. Neither he nor Lily appear to be independently wealthy.

I assume Vince isn't underpaying hm, he doesn't seem to be paying for accommodation, nor is he repaying a student loan. I'd have thought he has a bit to spare.

Philandbill · 04/06/2024 18:56

Fink · 04/06/2024 09:17

Teachers get a free place on trips they're supervising. They usually have to cover everything that isn't included for children for themselves, e.g. insurance, whatever meals aren't included etc. Sometimes I've been expected to self-fund a risk assessment visit to the location, including foreign travel.

They do not get a free holiday: organising the trip in itself is a nightmare, and then supervising the kids is hard work on very little sleep. It's easier if you're just supporting the lead teacher, but if you are the lead teacher then you don't get to have a break at all. You run activities all day, with all the usual teacher duties around behaviour management. Plus you have to cope with who's not eating properly, many more arguments than usual, dozens of minor injuries. Then you spend hours at night trying to get everyone to settle down and making sure no one goes into anyone else's room. And if you're really unlucky (usually happens at least once every other trip), you get to spend the night in A&E with someone.

As an MFL teacher, the Head of Department would tell us when it was our turn to organise a trip, we didn't usually volunteer! The senior leadership team will also dictate how many teaching staff from which departments we're allowed to take, and we have to make up the rest of the ratio with non-teaching staff.

If I wanted a free skiing trip, going as a teacher is not the way I'd choose!

Absolutely this. I haven't done a ski residential but on returning from the residentials I have done, having spent hours beforehand and being on duty 24/7 through the trip including a weekend it's a bit tiresome to have parents gripe that I've not paid for my holiday.

Eastie77Returns · 04/06/2024 19:23

MsCheeryble · 04/06/2024 17:28

I assume Vince isn't underpaying hm, he doesn't seem to be paying for accommodation, nor is he repaying a student loan. I'd have thought he has a bit to spare.

Oh I meant apart from his salary, does have access to ‘family’ money.

I imagine Vince pays him quite generously so as to impress Elizabeth.

Godesstobe · 04/06/2024 19:37

I'm glad to know teachers work hard on school trips these days.
When I was 15 my best friend and I went on a school trip to the Oberammergau Passion Play. We were accompanied by the awful man who taught me SMP maths and a music teacher with a reputation as a pervert.
After Oberammergau we moved on to a village in the mountains for 10 days. We were turfed out of the hotel after breakfast every morning and told we weren't allowed to come back until the evening.
On the first day my friend and I met two wealthy older French boys who we fell madly in love with. We spent every day with them at the lido and every evening being wined and dined. We had a 10pm curfew but it was never enforced and we would return to the hotel at 11 or 12 o'clock to find the two teachers drunk in the bar.
On the last night the two young men took us out into the countryside and made it clear that they expected paying in kind for all the meals they had bought. Fortunately they didn't insist when we reacted in naive horror. My friend and I still talk about how differently things could have turned out. It beggars belief that the teachers exercised so little supervision.
We remember it as a really great holiday though.

That's enough recollections. You will be pleased to hear that I intend to stick to TA from now on.

TottersDeterminedlyTowardsThePollingStation · 04/06/2024 19:39

I assume (and think we may have heard) that Pargetter offspring receive an allowance, @Eastie77Returns? It probably won’t have increased enormously since they were teens - enough for necessities but not enough to live the high life.

Freddie often used to complain of being skint before he had a job - if he regularly burnt through his quarterly amount in a couple of weeks, that would leave a long time with no money apart from what he could cadge from his mother or sister. (And the trustees keep withholding his inheritance. Angry)

Once again I wonder why the LL twins seem to have absolutely no contact with the bright young things of the county. Are they all far afield doing things Lily and Freddie aren’t?

Godesstobe · 04/06/2024 19:41

So Mick clearly realises there is something dodgy about Rochelle. It's disappointing that he has accepted that Joy doesn't want to talk about it though. If Joy doesn't talk about it, and Mick isn't going to do any digging, it could be years before we learn the truth.