Speaking as a non-expert on this, would this be accurate?
Most perpetrators of domestic and sexual violence are male. Most adult victims are female. (Not sure if there is a sex difference when it comes to child victims. 
) Men are physically stronger than women, so can cause a lot more damage. Male socialisation results in more aggression and less inhibition about using violence, because in some families (and this is backed up by some toxic social attitudes) boys are not taught to suppress aggression, not encouraged to talk about their feelings and be kind to/care about others, and they grow up with a stronger sense of entitlement to get what they want at all costs. (Obviously some women grow up like this too, and most men don't. But far more men grow up like this than women.)
Both men and women can be emotionally abusive. If a woman is an abuser, this is the most likely form of abuse for her to perpetrate, because it doesn't require great physical strength. However, many women who are emotionally abusive are likely to be physically abusive to their children at least occasionally. They may also collude with, or turn a blind eye to, or be almost wilfully negligent in reference to monitoring the behaviour of, a male who is physically and/or sexually abusive to their children.
To state the blindingly obvious, emotional abuse can be very damaging. I've seen it stated it takes far longer to get over emotional abuse than any other form because it's a betrayal of trust and it destroys self-confidence and damages future relationships.
I surmise that coercive control is overwhelmingly a male crime from what I've read about it. It isn't necessarily backed up by physical or sexual violence, or the threat thereof, but it often is. It would virtually always include financial abuse and it is a specific form of emotional abuse. Men get away with it more than women because we still live in a deeply sexist society so when people see a heterosexual couple where the man calls the shots they may shake their heads in private but they don't necessarily see it as abuse.
Wordy, sorry.