Encounters - does no mean no

[SouthWestmom]

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b09j2yc5#play

Did anyone else listen to this? Really really well done. I felt the man was still unable to understand how his actions could be similar to her experiences.

She was very polite about how infuriating she found him.
He just couldn't expand his experience to being anything like hers, and that was the problem in the first place!
"Oh you had a stalker = bad. I was just in lurve and she should have been more sensitive = not bad"
He didn't come across well at all

She was, wasn't she? He was 34 and she was 24. It was all, yes that's bad BUT