This is the blog summary. I agree it misses a lot of nuances.
Going back to the first rape, yes, we (obviously) didn't hear the whole thing, and it was a scene where there was obviously something going on which needed either a commentary or a visual element to make sense of it, so nobody can say with certainty what was supposed to have happened. As far as I can recall, though, Rob plied Helen with drink. It was clear they were both feeling amorous. However, when she said 'Shouldn't we go upstairs?' he ignored her. There were signs that he was ripping her dress and then she said in a questioning and slightly fearful tone 'Rob?'
Now, the only way I can make sense of her extreme distress over the next few days (far more than just 'being a bit flat' as the blog post says) is to suppose that she was desperately upset that he ignored what she wanted over something so intimate, something that was supposed to be a sign of how much he loved her and also that he railroaded her into taking the chance of getting pregnant - it was so clear from what happened that he has no respect for her at all and he is utterly selfish. Helen has blinded herself to this for the most part and she has been brainwashed into believing that everything is her fault and/or she is imagining things, but she knew something was badly wrong about that night's events.
Also, there are clear indications that he was so rough that he hurt her and (given that she was pregnant so soon afterwards) there was no contraception in place. We know that's not what she wanted at that stage. And then of course the gaslighting started - he made an off the cuff remark about 'getting a bit carried away last night' with his trademark mirthless chuckle. He makes my skin crawl.
And yes, MeolsCop, I said on the last thread that what happened this week is probably not the second time. I can't imagine he ever takes no for answer. Why would he? What he wants is the only important thing. Helen is too silly and mentally fragile for her wishes and feelings to merit any attention at all. 