I'll bet, having 3 makes a difference
Now we don't have a cat, I'll prob go and stay at my folks for a night or two this year.
DH can't understand why I find the house much easier to keep when he is not here - according to him he is very tidy but the difference is unbelieveable
On a lighter note, have managed to get James to do a wee on the toilet just before he goes to bed, a slow start, but a start at least!! He does not tell me he needs to go but thought I'd give it a bash!