aww basl {{{{{hugs}}}}} Had tears to my eyes reading that. I know how frustraing it can be. Tom still has a nappy at night and will only poo in a nappy. Hes not had any bleeding going though, he just refuses to use potty or toilet.
I've been seeing a family support worker who we initially saw regarding potty training. Tom wasn't dry during the day when he started nursery back in August, but he is now. Now we see her about his behaviour, especially towards Erin. He's always hitting her, lifting her head and letting it drop back. We've been trying time out/naught chair for weeks but he's still doing it. Last night he whacked her on the head with a small jewellery box!
I hate taking him to toddler group or just going out with kids as I know he'll get at her. Having her in the Skate is slightly better. We give him loads of attention. He'll be out for the day and will come running in and hit her. DP did tell him the other night that he'd be taken away from mummy and daddy if he keeps hurting Erin. He did burst into tears and gave her a hug and kiss, but he's still doing it.
His eating isn't great either. Typical day: Breakfast - Shreddies, Lunch - peanut butter on toast & pom bears if he eats some/all, a few buttons/stars after nursery, dinner - maybe some carrots/mash or chips/pastry and trifles/grapes for afters.